believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right.., you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together....

Absolutely, very well said. it's the tapestry of life's lessons. The twists and turns, the ups anthere's a certain beauty in things falling apart, paving the way for something even more beautiful to emerge.

Growing Up

No one wants to even try in believing in goodness anymore. It's like people are so scared that they don't want to get hurt by trusting someone. But someone like me who wants to help get pushed away too. I don't blame them for that but my point is, If you want things to change and people should try to actually talk, it should start from you and also how can you expect others should lower their walls when u can do it yourself? At this point I don't even understand why are we even Normalising "Stay toxic and don't trust anybody" and instead not been talking about how we shouldn't betray others trust. Why are we not trying to prevent something and instead normalising stuff like this. I don't even get this anymore🤷🏻‍♂️

3am Thoughts

Everybody betrayed me, my god, my love and my sister 😌

Cheating

I still don't trust him
it's been two months and it doesn't even feel like a real relationship 
How to make it happen?
He's too good to be true
and too much green flags is also a red flag
I don't know what to do honestly
Please give some. advices 



 

i feel stuck. how to get rid of trust issues 
im constantly worrying that my bf will cheat and i cant even trust him he didnt do a single yhing to make me not trust me but its my past experience i got used and cheated on italked to him about it and he tries to give me reassurance but i still cant

Overthinking

How do you trust your partner? I had a crush on a guy since my freshman year in high school, and now after an year, I am finally dating him. My partner is really cute and there were many girls who had their eyes on him. I don't despise them, absolutely not. I was one of them too. But the other girls are very pretty too. 
I am blessed to have him as my boyfriend but everytime he talks to a girl over call just as a friend, I can't help but think that he will easily get anyone better than me and he may be cheating on me with her. 
Every time my doubts are proven wrong. He has proven his loyalty every time. I don't want to doubt him anymore. How can I just start trusting my partner? He is like a blessing and I don't want to lose him. He kept up with my antics with very little and well-deserved complaints... I want to be a good partner too and stop doubting him every time.

Love

sometime i feel like no one is trustworthy if i discuss my problem with someone they take advantages of it i really don't know what to do .. 

Frustration

Just saw a reel of Ashish Bagrecha
For “trusting again”

He said:-
Trust their ACTIONS not WORDS 

Lambi lambi batien text pr, phone pr kehna ahsan h,

What action does that person takes Trust on those ACTION,

It might take time but you won’t get HURT AGAIN 


These days it’s so hard for me to overcome betrayals, in earlier days I used to handle these things like a pro but now I feel so anxious whenever someone betrays me or doesn’t treat me right. Obviously I cut them off after this but the hurt and anxiety stays for a really long time. Any suggestion guys? 

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