Being in a one-sided love is not easy. I want to lower my hopes but everyday my feelings grow. If there’s only an easy way get out of here, I will take it.
Amrinderpreet @youareimportant
In this case, you really need to focus on yourself and look at it in a realistic way. Loving someone is not controllable, but you really need to divert your attention to other things maybe studies/work so that you spend most of your day there as one-sided love can turn out painful for you.
Divert your attention and talk to your friends/family if you can to see if they can help you in any way to divert your attention and to lead you in a different way!
Been there done that, the only way through the pain is through it. Start accepting that its going to hurt and embrace it. Talk to someone you confide in let go all your emotions that might help you understanding your feelings well. Eventually it’ll stop bothering you. Stop thinking about it, engage yourself in productive or fun activities (whichever suits your goals). All the best
I can see why you feel so annoyed. I would be mad, too. There are a lot of people who also deal with this. I have dealt with something similar and it affects a lot of us.
There is always an unbiased amount of give and take we experience everyday but sometimes when it comes to near and dear we become aware of this give and take and start to realize the small things we do for them and vice versa.
It’s always a good idea to expand your circle of friends and pace yourself with this particular friend of yours. Respect is a two-way street and he/she must earn yours as well. He/She is neither above or beneath you but he/she must also learn to be respectful of your feelings as well. You are a wonderful human being and sometimes we just need to be told/reminded of this from time to time.
We’re here for you. Think of us as your 2nd family.
