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Anonymous

being friends with someone you’ve fallen in love with is tough… I am trying to do that but falling miserably…and I think I’ll be stranger with her which just scares the hell out of me I don’t know how’ll manage to live without her being my good friend itne mahino se kitni pyaari dosti share Kari thi Jo Maine sab kharab kardi
life’s been really tough because of that and now I’m just helpless in my own world lost not knowing what and how to do things next

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@peppy_giggly_5

You should not be friends with someone if you have romantic feelings towards them ,I mean obviously the amount of feelings if they are high you should avoid being with friends with them and it’s tough ,it’s super tough …I hope you find strength

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Anonymous

dude…at this point I’m just i like don’t know how should I explain I’m in second year I’ve shared almost every moment of my first year and it’s almost near to impossible to avoid being friends with them I’ll just not be able to do that…things got worse when she started liking a third person

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Anonymous

It’s almost impossible to being with friends with them?? the moment you started feeling for her ,the friendship ended there now it’s not just being friends, don’t be around anyone circle or proximity just because you have something for them ,it’s wise to choose yourself choose you and move on ,let the feelings come down ,just because you waana be around them it’s gonna cost you

Brother
Being around them and suffer is tough

Moving on is tough too

Choose your tough

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Anonymous

nahi hoga yaar ekdum nahi hoga vo merese it’ll hurt me more

Anonymous

I’m going through the same thing literally

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Anonymous

what is your current status with her ?

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Numan @numanisabhat

Overthinking trauma , when she was your friend she should have understood u and your feelings

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Anonymous

she does but she cannot give it back to me

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Numan @numanisabhat

Then you must accept that some are not able to express tbh I myself is in this situation… but we must accept and let it go with the flow

Anonymous

I myself am *

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Numan @numanisabhat

Well what you love in her /him? Isn’t good like you love you friend?

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