Been waiting for my university to finish and get distant from my ‘friends’, because they did horrible things to me and disrupted my mental health. Now that the time has come, I did what I wanted to do for a long time. I left from all the whatsapp groups. Thought it’d make me feel better, but no, I’m worried and restless since then. I don’t know what’s wrong. Plus what am I really going to do from now? No friends, no plans, nothing.
You’re going to learn more about you, about your interests, about how comfortable you’re around certain things and situation, you’ll learn more about you. And you won’t
Because you spend major chunk of this time with them
And every memory or things are surrounded or with them and it’s common to feel this way.
Don’t you worry about it :)
Everything will be okayy and text me if you ever need some to hear you out or just exist. Takecare and be safe
It’s hard when people my age are enjoying their lives with friends while I am living this lonely, boring life.
So what do you do now? Like how do you pass your time?
Just by existing :)
At times it’s so lonely and boring
At times it’s so eye opening that you learn a a thing or two about yourself.
Make sure you get to become a better person, read, explore about the things you like and your craft. Learn and unlearn things about your life. Try to become content, be kind and try not to make others experience what you’ve had experienced. Everything’s in life is impermanent, all our sorrows, happiness, moments , love, heartbreaks and eventually we die and people only remember how we made them feel and I’m sure you’re doing your best and if not give your best and treat everyone with kindness :)
Thank you for your kind words. But whatever it is, life is hard without friends. And now I guess there is no way for me to make friends.
There are if we really want to
But do we really want to?
Are we afraid of the past experiences that we don’t take any steps towards a better life and be where we are or
Just try to talk and try new things with out the past dictating our future
What’s your story?
Girl!!! Same. Lonely and clueless.
I get this feeling, completely relatable. See what I can say is, you can find a hobby which u love. For example, gyming, singing, cooking etc. You can make friends online or maybe u can spend some extra quality time with your family.