Been in long distance relationship for 4 years . more of fights than good conversation. Somehow I feel because of me adjusting to his words he is dominating and restricting me a lot.insecure and posseiveness has crossed its limits .his words in anger are abusive sometimes. I fear of telling him anything because he never understand it he always try to complain. Only good thing is he supports when im facing any prblm.
Its getting too hard for me .should I end this relationship? Im not able to understand.😓
Talk to him say him how u feel even though it didn’t change anything and u can’t find peace in ur relationship then its better things end
It’s just my opinion since u said things r getting hard u deserve lot more love
Thank you its really kind of u .but I don’t know mayb being a girl im getting too emotionally weak thinking about further.
Thats fine to get emotionally weak sometimes it brings back u more stronger
True thanks for ur words it really is making me a little confident on my decision
More love to u🤗
TO YOU TOO🤗
I have tried asking him but as of what I know he isn’t going through anything serious nothing is bothering him anyway .he is trying to control my actions because he is insecure about himself.
Maybe me finding an other guy I don’t know
He doesn’t trust me …u know
The situation is I should talk only to him.I have to switch off my phone in night.I shouldn’t use any social media. I must use whatsapp only to chat to him. Tell me what should I do .
Told him what else should I do to prove . its been 4 years of me proving and he complaining and doubting
Yes.thanks for asking me the right things it made my thoughts more clear of what I should do
I broke up my long distance relationship 3/4 months ago. And the reason is exectly the same as yours. I felt like a captive when i was with him. I didn’t feel comfortable when i thought of being with him for the rest of my life. So i just took the intiative and did it at once. Now i feel happy & free.
More happiness to u 💕
in my case only thing stopping me is he stood by me when I was low 🙁
I think you should see if you actually love him or not. If he actualy loves you or not. Or its just obsession or somethin.
I mean you should feel comfortable with each other and support each other. Like isn’t this suppose to be relationship all about. Trust, support, love, care all these are suppose to be in it.
Yes that’s true uts just that we found people in ourselves who actually were similar that leaded into relationship .but now
I feel mayb its the behavioural change which im not able to take which somewhere I feel im losing myself
6 years in a long distance relationship. E everything was going smoothly but insecurities came. After 6 years we had trust issues. We broke up mutually but i know we are still not over each other. 6 years with the same person who knows every details of your life, with whom you share everything, every problem now is no longer your part. I can feel you.
Exact spot on situation 😭
im not able to understand what to do
Me neither, but i hope we will find a way soon🤍
More love and power to u✨