Because I grew up with two mentally ill parents, I chose not have children.
1) Because I didn’t really have a childhood and wanted to enjoy my life after I’d established it, and 2) I didn’t feel that passing on those genes was very responsible (plus my spouse has severe mental illness in their immediate family as well.)
Why pressure me about my decision? It has no effect on anyone else but me and my spouse. I don’t lecture people when they announce a fifth or sixth pregnancy! Have as many kids as you want. I chose zero, and that shouldn’t be something I get chastised for. Also, it’s very uncomfortable to talk to strangers or acquaintances about my abusive childhood. It’s awkward and uncomfortable for everyone.
The Phyton @shaguar
Fellow anti-natilist here
Your decisions are final dear. No more lending ears to the people around ✨
Stand firm on your decisions ❤️
Take care ✨
Thank you ❤️
maybe an advice from a stranger: Children only bring light and happiness to your life. They will make your life more colourful than ever.
Are you suggesting people who struggle with an abusive past and mental illness will be better off if they have children? Even if they don’t want them? That’s some pretty bad advice.
I read it once more and I got it now. I’m sorry. That was bad advice. Forget it.
