Be a failure.

Approach the girl and get rejected. 

Post the video and get called an idiot. 

Start the business and watch people criticize your first moves.

Everyone else did it. You aren’t a special case.

Invest in your portfolio of failures until you can afford to succeed.


David

Life

She's so cool.. She's so nice

Out of 10 I'll give her 9.

Dedicated to a girl members.. 💕🙈👏

Affirmations

Broke up today after 3 years of relationship.
It's very hard to believe that she has gone. 


Breakup

Got out of a not so called bf/gf relationship but want bf/gf relationship benefits type of complicated relationship. I gave so many chances to her and to us though I know it’s not relationship and she don’t want it yet but she told me to wait patiently. She said many different things many differently times and don’t know which words to take seriously for anymore. Last night she called me two times and texted me Good night and if I am ok, I could pick up but I am worried about myself that my heart will  give another chance again to this whole thing all over again. What should I do? Should I call her back and reply? Would I be rude if I didn’t? Should I stay silent and kept on moving forward with my decision that I decided? I love her so much😔 have tried everything and gave so many chances for it. 

My girlfriend thinks I'm not paying her enough attention, don't speak properly, and I'm always sad, but she never try to understand that it's a very critical time for me, since I am looking for a job, and there are a lot going in my life right now, I just want her to understand me but she never and I don't want to tell her all this. Now she doesn't want to talk to me, she thinks I am very boring.

3am Thoughts

I feeling unsure of what to do anymore 
I'm still in love with a girl I went to high school with. It's been 13 years since I dropped out of school, we talked to each other from time to time or when we'd run into one another. She use to work at a photography booth at Walmart, when I first started working at my current job I'd go there to cash my check just so I could talk to her for a few minutes, which was the highlight of my week. I was dating someone at the time which we stayed together for 14 years and was married and had two beautiful girls so I couldn't ever tell her how i felt. Two years ago my wife and I split and it was partially because of this girl I'm in love it. Things had fallen apart between my wife and I and I was drinking with a friend of mine one night and told him how I felt about this girl, he was friends with her also and wanted to help me in some way so he messaged her one day and told her I'm unsure of what he said but that night he came and told me that she was down the street at a friend's house and that he'd talk to her. At the moment we was about to run to the store and I figured why not stop by and talk to her, little did I know that one night would change my life. We talked like we always had for a while and hugged and said our goodbyes after a bit. I couldn't stop thinking about her being in my arms after that. We started massaging afterwards and I told her how I felt, she said she was in no position to be dating anyone at the time and I told her I understood, thinking that she'd been hurt and wasn't sure about jumping into another relationship. She knew I was married and that I wasn't happy and was thinking of leaving my wife, which I did a few weeks later. The fact that I left did change things between us, but I was prepared for that,  she wasn't the only reason for me leaving. But we talked for about 8 months afterwards, hanging out every now and then. But I could help but feel she didn't feel the same. I overreacted a few time over things she posted, manly because I didn't know how she felt about me and assumed the post were about me. Which was the wrong thing to do, communication is key in a relationship or friendship and I hadn't asked her how she felt about me or what the post were about. But when I felt like she was blowing me off when I'd ask if she wanted to hang out or go to the movies, she always had something to do or couldn't which was okay but I felt it was time for me to leave her alone. I'm a kinda shy guy and dont always know what to say and I'm not very good at starting a conversation, so when we would hangout I didn't say much. I couldn't help it she made my heart race and my head spin, she didn't give me butterflies she gave me pterodactyls. But acting like that I'm sure made her uninterested in me. We haven't talked in a while, I've kept my distance ever since I saw a post ofnhers that just really hit hard. It was a hand coming out of water saying "I love you" and in the next picture it was a hand give the other a high five and saying "I like you" the next picture was the first hand going down in the water as if it was drowning. Which was about how I felt, still kinda do. I ended up messaging her and tell her I was sorry for everything, for being so clingy and obsessed, she told me she was sorry for making me feel like that way, when I was all m. Im not mad at her for not feeling the same as I do, little heartbroken but I dont think I could ever be mad at her. But even now that I'm dating someone else I still can stop thinking of her every day, I follow her on social media just to see her pictures and see how she's doing. I've went as far as following accounts she probably hasn't used in years because there's pictures of her from when we use to hangout. I miss her so fucking much and I dont know what to do anymore. Do I wait and tell her when she's single again? Do i just give up on her? Would I even be good for her being in her life? I DONT KNOW ANYMORE 

Depression

I need a girlfriend!

I wanna have a sister to care for but I do not have one. Am not interested in having a gf! What to do!?

Confusion

Directly posting this without introducing myself, sorry.

I'm having rough time since couple of weeks idk I'm getting lied betrayed from the ones i love, there's person i think i get really attached to her she's the most similar person I've ever met in my life, those co-incidences we contour every time between us, that touch of her, the melody of her kiss, to be honest I've kissed 3 persons in my life including her i Never get the feeling, that melody, that ecense in anyone's kiss but her's, idk i just love that damn girl & she's there hanging around with other person, or idk maybe dating him, & she doesn't give a fuck about me, this broke me in to pieces, it makes me feel that no matter what i do she doesn't love me back the way i love her, its gonna be a year since we've met to eachother, I've tried everything to make her love me back but, i don't wanna beg her to love me but atleast i just want her to know that she is doing wrong to me & she'll regret it one day.

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