Bad boys are attractive !!!
But what is that reason?? ๐ถ
Often times it has to do with inner child wounds. Perhaps you were emotionally neglected as a child or you had an absent father. Or an abusive father and absent mother, or vice versa. Sometimes, parents were present, but absent in a dissociated way (emotionally neglectful).
There are a few things that could be happening: you could feel the need to โfixโ them, or you could feel unworthy of kindness, or you are unconsciously attracted to people who you feel might provide you with a familiar feeling (pain that you became accustomed to in childhood, whether it was emotional or physical), etc.
There is a lot to be learned and uncovered in asking this question. You may need to research attachment styles and maybe even get to know yourself on a spiritual level to understand yourself & your inner wounds more clearly.