VJ @vj2725
At the end of the day, there’s no one, though you know that your heart seeks for the one, but all you do is, end up with a sorrow heart.
P @womeninblack
Be your own friend!!!
VJ @vj2725
I guess that’s all what one’s left with then.
You were born alone, you are going to die alone. so Be there for you. what is going on inside your mind/heart no one will know better than you. And always remember Almighty will always be there with you, no human but Him!!
No, isn’t that defeat. Isn’t there one friend to whom we open up like a mirror to ourselves. Should that not be the goal?
that should not be goal. There will be one person to whom you open up more. But what you will do when that person is not there at some point of life? All the things you went through or felt before meeting that One person, will come back again.
Gotta agree with you.
And becomes really hard to get over it. Sometimes that person will need you and you wont be able to do much because you were dependent on him/her all time. That feeling hurt most!!
Fear of failure or failure from a person is part of life. We are not to be alone. We need people. I consider that one friend one of greatest gift and pray to God for such s gift. But not having is not an option. Not trying us not an option.
Yes there will be things he/ she may not help or may even cause you pain. But how is that a reason for deserting the idea and be alone. I am unable to phathom.
I am not saying you should not have one. I am saying be your friend before too. So even if that person is not there, you will survive!! I pray to Almighty that no one has to be in such situation.
I am not suggesting to be alone. I am saying be your own friend too.
May be it’s me but being with thyself feels like accepting defeat. May be I am unsuccessful that makes it sad but I do not want to relegate myself to live with myself.
Just Trust Almighty!! you will be fine. Just work on what you want to achieve and Almighty will bless you!!
That my friend faith in almighty …na lossing it
VJ @vj2725
See, we all have faith in almighty, but what matters is the present. Can’t stick with the hope of future that he’ll make things alright. And that doesn’t mean we don’t enjoy our own company too, we surely do, we are our own friends, but we just miss the one with whom I can share the friendship that I carry with my own. That’s the point.
That certainly is a perspective. Only that in this me being my own friend. I don’t leave the search for that true friend that’s my fear. You see we get habituated even to lonliness and I don’t want that. May be I am wrong but that’s my state of mind.
VJ @vj2725
I don’t want that either, getting habituated to loneliness. We’re on the same page.
Chaloo kuch tho acha hua we are on same page …
No one likes to alone. Even I don’t want to be alone for my whole life. This is just me!! I enjoy my own company. And I believe if no one is there, I will always have Almighty. Thats how I am!!
Kind of agree to that…
VJ @vj2725
Hahaha yes!
Your profile statement kind of sad…why so…feels like a lot of weight on heart…
VJ @vj2725
Maybe
May be you could share?..and off load ?
Sure I will connect
true. i feel like it all comes to us at the end. what we feel about it. eve tho we can go to many to talk or anything. we have to know that it is ourselves who need ourselves most of the times. its okay! you’ll get there. gonna be alright. :")
I feel you
Going through the same situation 😔
Dreamer @aheadofthecurve
Lending you a hand 🖐️ , so that you don’t drown in sea of sorrow 🌊
VJ @vj2725
Thank you, friend.
Dreamer @aheadofthecurve
Itna udaas mat ho, there are a billion people out , considering law of probability koi ek toh mil hi jayega who can be your bestie.
You will eventually find the one that your heart seeks…that is what i believe…
Navi @navi_23
There is no problem in having friends and not having friends we just need to make sure that we are not getting hurt in the processvof making one person our world. We just make sure to survive alone too.
