Ask Me Anything with Bhavika Mehta on August 16, 2020
@bhavika is an undergrad student at Delhi University and the founder of The Happy Company which is a volunteer-based organisation that provides a free platform for anyone to vent out.
Feel free to take her opinion and advice on talking-it-out. It is an open discussion!
You can post your questions below by August 15, 2020 (Saturday).
@bhavika would be answering them right here on this thread on August 16, 2020 (Sunday).
Asking questions shows strength, not weakness.
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In my college, i and other 2 girls were friends… let’s name them x and y … i donno if y is kinda jelaous me being with x … but i loved and treated both of them equally… i and x both left old group of friends to sit with y in class… but y never valued me … she said things about me to my very close friends and never confronted me with her issue with me… I never knew she felt left out because of me… she told each and everyone that i left her during one particular time … bt i always cared for her… now everyone started feeling that im bad and left her n all … it really hurts me.even now she isnt caring about me but is so good with x … i feel bad … even though i never did wrong with her… how can i overcome this its causing me more and more sadness day by day
It is very important to communicate well. Tell y that you care about her, we often love people the way we want to be love instead of loving them the way they want to be loved. Listen to how she wants to be loved, and put your efforts there. If she still doesn’t appreciate it, move on from that friendship! Invest efforts in your own self, that way you wouldn’t miss her company.
It’s my Birthday today and I never really felt like celebrating it and basically it never felt like a special day which needs to be celebrated but at the same time I hate it when that happens it reminds me of how alone I am as I have no friends who will call me and wish me and it breaks my heart sometimes and I don’t know what to do about it. Maybe because I want to get some attention on my Birthday atleast.
My ex used to always msg me and wish me late he could never wish me at 12 in the night as I used to wish him and I used to feel bad about it and then just simply get over it. I broke up with him 2 months before and today he again messaged me late for the birthday. I wasn’t sure if he would even message me and I don’t know why I feel bad and hurt and guilty too. It was a 7 year relationship. He didn’t agree to break up but I wasn’t ready to be with him it was toxic and I couldn’t handle the pain anymore and took that decision. Now I don’t know why I still expect him to wish me on time, I want him to move on too. His message brings back all the pain I am trying to heal. Also I don’t know why but I feel bad for him (i am an Empath). Can you suggest something which can help me get through this. I just want to be at peace ❤
Happy birthday, I think we expect presents from others on our birthday but we forget to give ourselves one, give yourself a present and don’t be so hard on yourself, Give it time, if you invested 7 years in one person, the feelings won’t vanish in two months. Give yourself time to heal, mourn well, don’t keep it all inside. Engage in productive activities that will take your mind off him, meditate and work out, it will help you sleep better and engage in a hobby.
How was ur experience in building happy company?? was it stressful running it at a young age??
It is beautiful, sometimes it is bittersweet but as a whole, the experience has been beautiful! I have an amazing team backing me up and they ensure that it isn’t stressful :’)