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@melody

as i was chasing my dreams and the things i like i feel so left out around my friends and they don’t even seem to care about it like, even if we are talking in group calls or if i join in there gathering i am total outsider with them i don’t understand there saying and i am just staring them i am listening but my mind regret for going out with them i just want somebody to suggest me a solution for this all?

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karan @karan_pratap08

Be with someone who matches your vibes. Don’t fit in. Just do what makes you happy. And that thing doesn’t make to sense to them if it makes you happy. ✌🏻

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@melody

will being happy on my own will heal the bound between my friends

karan @karan_pratap08

Well, being happy at own makes you feel confident, and people are attracted to confident people more than who always talks about their problems everytime. And If you are happy you just have some little talks with your freinds and they will eventually talks to you.

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@melody

i tried and its like 2.5 year but its still same

karan @karan_pratap08

So, it means that your freinds doesn’t want you. Leave Toxic friendship and find some real.

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@melody

fact is that they want me to leave them and they won’t be around with me when i need them

karan @karan_pratap08

That’s what I say. ✌🏻
I know sometimes we make bond to some strangers called freinds but if they are not making any effort so just leave it.

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@melody

i just don’t know a way to leave them behind

karan @karan_pratap08

You told the reasons before 😑

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@melody

i want to but how

karan @karan_pratap08

Find yourself find your goal, find your passion, make hobbies make yourself busy and then if you go to gym it’s your positive point make yourself so strong that you don’t need anyone everytime .

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Anonymous

1st of all don’t share your sad feelings with any friends if they r not your close one
Dosto ke saath Khushiyan baat ne ×2 hoti hai or guum baat ne se ×4 🤣😅

And find someone you can trust and if you r confused with your future then talk with someone who know the thing what you wanna do

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@melody

those were my one and only friends and now i am just a lonely bone

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Anonymous

You said they were your friends then what happen?

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@melody

they are but the bounding between us are not same as it used to be

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Anonymous

Yeah i can feel you because you were not together that’s why this things happen you got new friends and they got to so they share feelings with them they feel comfortable they got someone special in their life
But still they can’t forget the memories they have made with old ones
Don’t worry you’ll be fine just hangout with them more

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@melody

are you sure i should hangout and this will be good cause one of them don’t like me for dating the person she liked and i was unknown about it

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Anonymous

You should hangout with them and that’s the good option you got
Don’t worry you’ll be fine with her
Friendships are far more important then relationships 😉
Try share some flashbacks with them some werid things you did in past without them 😅😂
And take care ♥️
Btw I’m out after knowing you are an girl I’m feeling uncomfortable now 😓😓😅😅 sorry

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@melody

already tried it its even more awkward after i start to recall past

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