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@melody

As i have share my thoughts before also
I broke up in a condition where i have told him that i will wait for him for 5 years things might be difficult but i will wait for him i know i have made my best to accept the facts at that time many of my friends are also telling me to move on no boys in 2020 is like that he is lying but i know i have stay in a relationship with for 1 year i have done my best convince my friends that he says true even while breaking up with me he was loyally saying i dont know what to do now i mean its only six days and i feeling like this but i dont know what to do nowā€¦one of my childhood best friend have told me that i should be loyally waiting for him so it will loyal from both side there wonā€™t be karma and you will meet him in future i do believe her and this fact.
Like should i keep waiting for him for 5 years with no contact or just move on by saying he will not come??šŸ˜šŸ˜¶
i mean can boys really wait for that one girl for whole 5 years also he is going abroad for 5 years to work and he is from different caste also

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@luke
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Just go with lifeā€¦ donā€™t put any conditions. Whatā€™s meant to be will be and .

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@melody
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and???

@luke
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Do what you love

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@melody
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okay

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@khushi1812
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Hey, I know itā€™s a difficult period for you but trust me donā€™t me harsh on yourself and donā€™t crave for his attention. Youā€™re strong and brave enough. Trust me continue with your life and donā€™t think about him concentrate and yourself and whatā€™s yours will always be yours. If he doesnā€™t return then someone better is waiting to love you. Donā€™t lose hope. Always remember life is full of opportunities and surprises

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@melody
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i know but my opportunities are like him for he is special and my 1st priority also i love him i just canā€™t leave him behind like nothing ever happened between us he has no courage okay but still i am willing to stay with him

@khushi1812
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Listen, he CANNOT take you for granted. You have to take a bold decision. I know you canā€™t forget things which took place between the both of you but give it time, itā€™ll heal everything. You have to get over it. You have to concentrate on yourself. The more you concentrate on him, you start being restless and desperate. Please.

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@melody
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i know i am desperate for it my responsibilities as a gf to makeup his mind isnā€™t it no matter how much time it takes

@khushi1812
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Iā€™d leave the the final decision on you. Please be wise. The moment you think all this is not the worth it please leave it immediately.

@bnp
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Hey girl, hope you are fine. I just read your thoughts and some replies and I am sure about one thing that this guy is just playing with your feelings and emotions, I know it will hurt you but you have to accept this fact and leave that guy for good and focus on your life and career. If a guy really loves you he will never keep you waiting or hanging in between like these guy. Even if he comes back in your life right now it wonā€™t be permanent and will only hurt you more. I would suggest you to focus on your life and career and give all that love to yourself and just move on and one fine day the right one will come to you and give you all the love in the world so stop wasting your time and love on people who are not sure about you. It will be difficult at first but I am sure you will be happy. Lotā€™s of love to you girl.

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@melody
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i call him once to ask but he is not in the condition to trust others if i was in his place maybe i would have done same thing so i am trying to make him believe that i will not fail to make him trust me i just love him he also love and we both are special for each you know what i mean to say . The thing is he is he have some trust issues right now and i just want to make him believe that i will not do anything wrong that will harm him is it not to build up trust when we are in love i mean i just want him to trust me once so i can work this all things i mean i am not a bad girl even though what people says i am not similar to what they say i mean i can build some trust with him right ???
i mean he is not playing or doing wrong i know i can trust him that much he is not kinda bad after i stay a loong time in a relation with him i mean he might be confused so i am just trying to work in trust issues i just want him to believe me onceā˜¹ļøšŸ˜šŸ˜¶

@bnp
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If thatā€™s what you feel than communicate with him openly about all this and see how he responds and then decide whatā€™s best for you love. Do not waste your love if he doesnā€™t value it and is not ready to commit. Always keep your self respect intact bcoz once you stop respecting yourself, no one respects you and this is coming from experience. Be very careful with this decision my love. More strength to you.

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