As a bisexual I feel like some of my queer community friends looks down on me for "having the best of both worlds" :/

Bi erasure is very real. It’s not just in your head. You are valid and you count.

Other

Uhh I just got this app and lately I’ve been confused of what I’m feeling about my sexuality and stuff Ik it’s weird but like yeah

So like I think I’m gay YK I have no interest in boys and would never get into a relationship with one at all and I could never imagine doing anything with them, but lately it’s been kinda different, like I’m only attracted to older men but I’m not at the same time, it’s like I find them attractive and stuff but i still like girls (older and younger) and I’ve just been very confused about it and as I said I’m new to this app so I don’t know what to do after I post this lol 😭

Coming Out

How to figure out if I’m not straight? Anyone have any advice? Idk it’s all too confusing when your whole life since birth you’re told you’re a girl and you are ‘supposed’ to be attracted to only a male but now I kinda feel attracted to females too. Idk what to do about that or how to sort it out or know for sure? My friends don’t know about this although I’ve had said this many times in front of them but ofc with humor so they think I was joking only. I’m scared to talk to anyone about this if I’m bisexual or not. I’m just looking for someone who might be willing to spare some time and help me figure this out

Confusion

When I was in hostel I got intimate with one of my friend he is a boy . It happened for two three times but i don't like boys . I have always liked girls only but yeah never been initimate with a girl yet so it bothers me am I a gay or bisexual given this information and I am not able to decide it.Can someone help ?




Relationships

I am feeling attracted towards boys. I'm a boy too. I feel an urge to have sex with some boy. I'm 20. What should I do? Am I gay? What is the age when people realise they are gay or not? I'm confused.

Conflict

I am unable to Decide, either I am bisexual or am I straight??

LGBTQ

here,s the thing i,m just 20 and ig i,m bi but i don,t know why i,m more attracted to mens of age between 25 to 50 like the mens with proper beard machoo type lol not oldies but fit i,m just attracted and feel nothing else idk but the mens look more sexy  as they get ageing (the one who  maintains themselves) that's what i think don,t know but i don't wnna feel this way at same time i have a friend she and i talk alot whenever i talk to her i feel good idk which kinda situation is this lol anyone with same experience ???

Any here like me who is transvestite bcoz no one likes a boy who is like this (btw I m straight) but girls want a masculine guy. So any girl who is interested in a guy like me. U can see my pic that who m I. 

Is sexuality fluid? There are some days when I feel like I am more attracted to men then I am attracted to women then there are some days where I feel like I am more attracted to women then I am attracted to men then on some days I feel like I am attracted to both equally or I am not attracted to anyone at all regardless of their gender. What does this mean for me I don't know what to call myself when it comes to giving myself a gay label I feel like if I do call myself bisexual it would be disrespectful to straight people and lesbian/gay people because I feel like I am betraying my own community. Is it normal to feel like this? Is sexuality fluid? This is something that I have also discussed with my therapist but I feel like since she is not very well versed on dealing with LGBTQ clients and she is not able to give me a clear answer on this. It will be great if someone out here you can help me out with this. This is a question that has been eating my mind since the last few weeks as I am getting to know more about the different labels that they people use and the different lives that they live. If I don't get an answer here, should I switch therapist? Because I feel like I am good therapist who is well who is well-versed in this area would be able to provide me with the better in clear answer and help me get out of this turmoil of this question, is sexuality fluid?

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