She was supposed to get married this november. Don't know if she is married or not. However, I have been thinking about her a lot past few days. 

She wanted to be friends but I couldn’t 

Once someone is your ex, you should be done with each other. No 'staying friends' bullshit and all. 

I have contact with one of my exes. The others just don't align with me after breakup. It varies per person, I suppose.

Are you friends with your ex?

Breakup

He ditched me in friendship 

Friends

2 hours. He still hasn't replied 🙂💔

Relationships

How do I get over a boy that I can’t stop thinking abt?

Hii i broke up with my long term boyfriend for whom i and everyone thought he's the one for me. We broke up mainly because we grew up into different people.he believed i had become too modern. We both said hurtful things to each other but i was the only one who tried to fix things. After 3-4 months i realized i was the only one trying to work things out.i cried,apologised but he just never admitted his part of mistakes. I recently found that he started dating again just 4 months after the breakup and it hurt me badly. I have been trying to move on constantly but since we are in lockdown there is no way to distract myself. My friends have helped me a lot and some days i feel good but some days it feels so heavy, feels like i have come back from where i started. I still ask myself, what was my mistake?


I got an intrest on matrimonial site.. i shared my parents number to him and asked him to talk further to my parents.. but he asked my parents that he want to talk with me.. we do not that kind of culture.. usually in our side girl and boy talk only after they got engaged.. so my parents denied.. but should i talk with him?

Confusion

Idk whether im thinking much!!
My Bf hasn't replied me he haven't texted me the whole day!!
I feel im being childish!!
But he has time for changing his display!!!
But not even texting me once!!
I feel bad!!

Lonely

I am a mess I really don't know what to do my relationship has issues we lack understanding and he's very upset with me idk how to make it up i can't really understand what interests me and what should I do in my career ahead it's just a bag full of issues at one time I love him I wanna keep him he loves me too but even he's having issues with me he's having issues at home his house is at stake and i am of no help i just don't understand how to go about...

Stress

SHOULD I GO OR NOT??

BACK STORY: Currently living in different states with our parents, both of us unemployed, n finally after 2weeks gonna re(start) our career.. which also means atleast for few months not gonna meet or talk much (he is getting into 2 businesses which means gonna be super busy).

SITUATION: Before starting with hustle, we really wanna meet> spend few days together in peace (Last tym we only met for few hrs in rush).
🙃but we live with Indian parents, so obvsly can't just go.

LOOPHOLE: M allowed to attend my frnd's wedding (same state just 5hrs away) dated 17-21nov. In reality m 🙆 only invited for 20-21nov.

PLAN: On 17th morning ;after my parents set me off in train (to frndz place) I'll board another train to his place (16-18hrs). 
Be with him till 20th night, then leave for my frndz wedding.

😐 CONFUSION: My parents normally call atleast 6tyms a day..how m gonna tackle d noises when m in train, how m gonna lie/pretend about being in wedding for 4days.. +MONEY.. tickets, hotel!! (Still not earning >Last tym he spent ,so obvsly this tym I should> Cant use my cards cuz ghr pe msg jata h.)

😐 Should I go n meet him (cuz bhut mann h) but is it worthy to take risk (m I overthinking?)..Or let go this tym n see whether we meet in future.

Obvsly I need your advice 
Ps. No offense but kiddos/teens maybe this tym plz dnt advice. I need mature people to tell me what to do.

Lastly, Thanks🙃 for reading

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