Anyone wants to cutt off a toxic family member? But it feels extremely difficult everytime you try to do it.
Every single day π
miggi @miggi
Omgg! Iβm exhausted with this feeling!
I am so close to loosing my godamn mind !
Me too! Cheers to life! π
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yeah
Iβve been trying to get the other parent to get full custody of me from the toxic one. Just hasnβt happened yet.
More power to you! Just hold on and everything will be fine.
The toxic parent I have so many things I can use against them in court-
if I have a say in it that isβ¦I can try to help out the person that I want to have full custody of me thoughβ¦Maybe-?
Nyx @lost_not_found
Lol I am in such a toxic scenario sometimes I convince myself its me who is the toxic one. Bcz that shit never goes away and if begins to feel like you are equally responsible too.
Yeah, itβs confusing as hell. You are blamed for everything and then slowly you also start blaming yourself and seeing yourself as toxic.
Nyx @lost_not_found
100% true. Thats exactly where I am. There are legitimate facts suggesting I donot have a productive/positive environment but yk since its family it feels like I am in quick sand I cant escape because where do you go away from your own blood π
miggi @miggi
True⦠maybe look for a job in another city lol
Nyx @lost_not_found
Yk we dont even stay together at the moment but the amount if stress and anxiety I get from my dad is just crazy. Specially even after knowing I am mentally ill. Idk how to even proceed things with him now.
Oh! Maybe take a break from him for a while. Do some introspection and healing. Take your time and then hopefully when you start feeling better you can reconnect with him slowly with a better, happier and calmer version of you.
Nyx @lost_not_found
Thanks for your suggestions.