Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

Great, what do you think are the signs for a person not being interested to talk to you anymore. Didn’t wanna overthink above the whole situation so thought of penning it down here

O god…here it goes again…this kind of vibe you will get if someone is not interested in takking to you😅

Well, so I have been calling and asking one person to call me constantly, say just as friends itself, but uk, he just ghosts but while texting he is protrays like he is interested but when I ask him to call, mostly like late night, he doesn’t really sees the message and the next day he goes like he slept. Are these the signs 😅

a relationship must have equal involvement of both… make urself available if it goes on move on

Exactly rightttt, I mean any kind of relationship must have equal involvement of both. I feel like all the while I was just trying to be very matured about the whole situation. I always thought he didn’t really call back because he was busy, but now that since things are happening repeatedly, thought of giving it a thought on it.

Well honestly i think he is confused about you or i can say he is only 40% sure of you…now it depends upon you if you are ready to adjust in that 40% surity of his

So honestly even I am truly confused about the whole situation. I mean, it was never a relationship. It was just genuine friendship. Things went on well for a month. I mean we did like each other’s company a lot.From Feb, things started fading away, distance and all. Now I feel like, it’s just one sided, and that is from my side. I don’t want to be nagging him and all. I mean I am honestly ready to leave or give him space if he wants it.

tbh i was also in this phase… we never know whats in their mind
maybe he was afraid like me and i regret it now or he doesn’t want things to go on this way, giving sometime might be helpful coz everyone isn’t mature or brave enough right… did u ever observe that he jeolous or something if ur with someother person.

Well he did say once that he wanted to make a move on me. But during that time I wasn’t up for it cuz I am such a person who thinks about such things before getting into it. But he really doesn’t know that even I do have a thing for him. Now I am wondering whether I should be completly honest with him because I feel like I need to trust a person’s actions more than the way he texts. Also, talking about jealousyness, I don’t really think so. I mean that’s how he protrays it.

coz u said no he might be thinking to move on… talking abt text we are r more intelligent creative n emotional in texts but expressing them face to face hard… this whole context is jus to give n idea we nvr know what kind of a person he nor what he want u should analyze him urself n get a conclusion what ever it is don’t make trouble ur mind or health…

May be wo sirf physical relationship ka soch rha hoga

Righttt, and I am genuinely proud of myself for not overthinking about it this time :))). But that’s the thing his texts and talking doesn’t match at all nowadays so I am very confused. Usually in such cases, I blame myself sayin that I didn’t make a move or give it a try but I feel like right now I have given my best. Now it totally cones down to my self respect.

Maybe, he could do that as well. Which I am totally fine with his thought. But it’s just that I am not up for it.

how r u planning to find urself
will this work search where u lost

I am in the process of finding where exactly i lost myself. We go to that place where we lose a thing to hoping to get it back right? But when I try to find myself, I am lost between all the sadness and misery. The pile is too big and I have less energy. No idea what to do anymore.

what r ur thoughts on accepting the truth ,
n what is it to be brave in your terms

I think everyone lost some parts of ourselves as we move forward… that’s life…we all thinks at a point that we are not what we were …we were so much happy or so much energetic…missing my old self …but it’s not true …at this moment even if we are on the ground …just get you shit straight and be nrave enough to stand up again

Anyway i m gonna go now byee

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