AKANSHA @unhingeme
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Hey can you read the reply I have given above to know what whatβs bothering me.
Heyy
Maybe u are bisexual and ur figuring that side out of urs now and thatβs why itβs really confusing for u
Heyo Iβm bi and I was confused for some time too so if you have any questions I can try to help you out
Ya please. When and how were you a 100% sure that you are bisexual and not itβs not just something in your mind? Cause sometimes I feel I am and sometimes I think Iβm not
Honestly I spoke to a few people and one of them told me that itβs just a lable. Its not like there are some boxes you need to check to be bisexual. If you feel attracted to someone both guys and girls, then yes you are bi. And I know first hand how frustrating it is to question yourself, but it gets easier when you kind of start accepting the fact that you might be a little different than you were before.
It feels good to know that Iβm not the only who feels this way. You see Iβm not scared or ashamed of being a bi, just that Iβm really confused about my sexuality and you know itβs really difficult to explore your sexuality in a country like India.
Omg I relate so much. The not being scared or ashamed part makes so much sense to me. When I started questioning, every second was me doubting myself, I also had this phase where I thought that I subconsciously want to be bi so bad that Iβve convinced myself I actually am lmao. But now that Iβve figured it out, let me tell you it does get better. And the part about exploring your sexuality in India, everyone I have told so far has been great about it. Iβm not saying thatβll be the case for everyone but it definitely is a lot better than I imagined it would be.
Ya exactly, itβs just that Iβm having a really hard time finding another male who is gay/bi, who might be interested in me so that we could date of something and I could be more certain about my sexuality.
Oohh I thought about this too lol. Honestly tho no one wanted to be like an βexperimentβ for me where I try to figure myself out but if it works out for you thatβs great.
Ya thanks for taking time out, it was quite helpful
No problem at all. Someone helped me when I was questioning and Iβm glad I could pass on the favour lol
