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Hello guys. I am 17 yrs old living with my family i.e mom, dad and sis who is 14. My parents always fight/ argue and the major cause for their fights are their own parents ( I mean they start defending their parents that they are right and end up fighting between these two). My sis and me are both fed up with them. Well, based on the previous fights it is realized that they love their parents more than the family they are staying with.

I have some questions now.
1) Is it fine that they love their parents more than their children?
2) Is a querrel between a couple (sometimes went far extent) for their parents fine and common?
3) How can we as children react to those? (Sometimes we swear on them inside our hearts and also feel regret that if we can swear on parents)
4) Is there anything we can do to stop them?

I hope I recieve from all the people reading this so that we come to know different point of views to act upon.

Thanks

You know all of us have a special place for our parents in our life , like you do , because they are the one who got us here. And i think it’s not good to compare your parents parents’ to yourself. Your parents definitely love u but that doesn’t mean they cant love there parents. The love for there parents won’t decrease there love for you.

Well there are issues between many parents in Indian household, my parents also fight a lot. I think at some extent it’s normal, but if it’s too much like on everyday basis then maybe it’s not right

ik ik… Fights are normal but every fight is only one major reason…“Their own parents”… IDK if tht is normal

Try to solve their fight and tell them you feel suffocated when they fight. And try to understand your parents because after all they are also humans. And in case situation is out of your control then i would suggest just don’t interfare in their fight it would only cause u mental harm. When I see my parents fight i don’t involve myself , i just try to calm both sides and tell my pov and even if they don’t understand me then i just avoid their fights

IK Ik… But is it good to have disturbances in the relationship with the people they live everyday ? For their parents? I am not trying to selfish here but am fed up with the fights… I am unable to concentrate on my competative exams too

Okay then try to tell your parents your point of view i mean tell them what u feel about the topic of their fight. And try to see from both point of views , there are always more than 2 version of a story and u have to decide which one is more right.

I completely understand you. I also feel suffocated when there are issues in my home. I always think about my parents that at least sometimes they should give up snd think about us. If you are unable to solve their fights then i would better suggest u that ignore them ,like whenever they fight go somewhere else maybe it’s not right but it’s what I do

thats the only thing i am doing since birth… Nowadays i feel lyk i am 17 and still is there nothing I can do to stop them? Am i that useless?