Koshaa @koshaa
Any remedy for an intense feeling of lonelyness and emotional breakdown inside out?
Ferjin James @fera
Learn overruling your emotions not emotions you!
Koshaa @koshaa
I can do it for one day two days but after that I feel dead inside out, brust into tears. What is meaning of my existence in this world?
Koshaa @koshaa
Why Iโm chasing people while I donโt matter in their lives. Iโm ashamed on my failures. I feel no worth.
Ferjin James @fera
Really,existence is chaos.And our surroundings too,built on it.We have nothing to do with it.Only thing we can do is accept it and just move onโฆAlways remember 'this too shall passโ๐
Ferjin James @fera
Feel like youโve got relational issues,havenโt you?
Koshaa @koshaa
I have a biological family who never loved me and made my physical and mental health worst. I had crush on someone but he rejected. Few friends but now everyone in busy their career etc. I donโt know how to live like this.
Ferjin James @fera
Dm me,if u r ok with it๐
You are a treasure. Do not run after or chase people who doesnโt see you worth. NEVER cancel yourself. Value yourself firstโฆthatโs the first thing that you need to do. Wait for the person/people that will see what kind of gem and how valuable you are.
Koshaa @koshaa
No one will see me worthy and like a gem. I am not feeling alive. I hate my existence.
The problem is right there. You dont kike your existence, you do not value yourself. For what reason? Because of those people around that you think doesnt like or love you. The battle is always in the mind. If you dont see yourself worthy of anything then thatโs what gonna manifest. Try to change your mindset. Help yourself live. 1st, live for yourself before others.
I tell you, you do really matter. You just have to first focus on yourselfโฆimprove yourself firstโฆyou cannot give what you do not haveโฆ so love yourself first.
Koshaa @koshaa
I agree with your points but this is not all. I have no words to explain what I m felling right now. I wish someone understand without saying, Iโm feeling dead only
May I know the cause of you feeling this.
Is it coz of people around you , relationship stuff or friends.
Coz no matter whatever it is and feel this for so and so time , sometimes its OK to not be OK and feel sad about it .
Its actually chaos , self love , let things go all these things people say but it could be for temporary purpose .
Maybe you could let those emotions pass through you. Feel it , I know its hard and hold on to that to even feel it but trust me
Just stay clam and be at a place and let these pass through you and feel it.
Donโt over think your existence or why u had gone behind those wrong people or the one you thought they mean to you but turned out to be stranger ya whatever the reasons are.
Moment you start thinking and questioning those may not be wise way to do so at this stage where u feel left out .
Try putting back things slowly
Its fine to take time and do so.
Think in different angle not in negative way of questioning everything.
Its their loss so let it go slowly at its time
Do little bit detachment which sometimes does helpโฆ
Hope this helps๐
Koshaa @koshaa
Itโs helpful, thank you so much ๐
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Koshaa @koshaa
R u laughing at my misery regarding words๐
No ofcourse not,
I was happy that I could help thats why that emoji.
Koshaa @koshaa
Iโm not alien, please speak in human language if you wanna help ๐
Esta busha , vannukemati ลบaylia nublรฆ tรข.
Sisyphus @sisyphus
What do you do? Howโs your days going?
Koshaa @koshaa
Iโm unemployed, try to study for banking exams when feel bit relaxed. But I know this is not sufficient.
Sisyphus @sisyphus
What pulls you back? What do you do to relax yourself?
Koshaa @koshaa
My physical health and the environment around me is pulling me back. And now emotional health too
Sisyphus @sisyphus
Did you consult any doctor?
Koshaa @koshaa
Nope, I need a doctor Iโm aware of this but unemployment ๐
I canโt give you advice, coz Iโm not a professional. Always seek advices from professionals. If your physical health is weak you should consult a doctor. Life is not always fair and easy. Talk to a friend who, is a good listener and, doesnโt judge you.
Koshaa @koshaa
I told but later I feel why I am saying all this most of time, I know Iโm badly stuck and trapped in my situation. Why Iโm bothering others ๐
Sisyphus @sisyphus
This time too shall pass.
Koshaa @koshaa
How long? It has been 10 years.
You are absolutely right, but hardly have 2-3 person whom can talk on call about this. But not anytime. And everyone of them is busy in their career and studies ab. Thanks for your kind words friend, stay blessed always ๐
