Anxiety. I'm a bit of confused and heartbroken. My gf went for a 2 day trip with colleague but when ever I ask she say no without asking. And den she say k nhi bolage wo log so nhi puchti. I know I don't take that much effort. Nd all stuff. What should I do?.

Is your girlfriend rejecting to know what is the concern from your perspetive priorly?

She knows I want to meet. But she is not willing to take that effort k family will have doubt.

Confusion

The girl I am seeing says she isn’t ready for a relationship and has called things off… I’m not ready for a relationship either, I was just happy seeing her and spending time with her. I know she’s stressed at the minute with work and finances etc some family problems and she has trouble opening up and is scared of being hurt. And I know for sure she has deep feelings for me - she says she cares for me, has feelings for me and that I’m the most amazing person she’s ever met. She said she’s not ready for a serious relationship and that she wants to end things before feelings get even deeper which makes me think she’s just scared? 
She says her biggest fear is losing me completely and that she still wants to see me and talk and just be friends? 

Please someone tell me what to make of this? Shall I give her space and hope she will reconsider? I miss her so much

Breakup

I’m 21 and I moved to France from Nigeria a few months ago to study. I met a girl, a student of the school who has been so nice to me. We met each other on the school’s Facebook group and been close friends even before I got to France. We started to fall in love with each other and became so close. We almost started dating but just a few weeks ago, she sent a message saying she doesn’t wanna date anymore. She won’t even be close friends with me anymore. I’m really sad about this. She means the whole world to me. Asked her why she decided not to be with me anymore but she says it has nothing to do with me. I really think about her so much

I am in complicated-ship not a relationship, I am not ok with her going out clubbing who knows who she kissed and all that makes me worried. I don’t know what to do or say. She went out almost every week and I am worried, I felt like shit. Bottom line I don’t trust her due to her past/recent words/actions. I tried numerous times putting trust/faith in her but the next day/morning she would always say of how many free drinks she got and couldn’t remember who she kissed or how many guys she kissed. 
What should I do? 😔

Depression

Since My Break-up I've been depressed. It's been 2 months already and I still miss her evn though we r friends but we agreed to have some space for few months. I'm hallucinating bout her everyday at night , sometimes I go black-out(unconscious) and in that moment I see her either killing me or choking me or just standing and promising me that she will comeback, these r things that I'm hallucinating , countless cries and sometime i laugh and cry at the same time , i started smokin though it doesn't help, drinking and I'm busy in my studies but no rest seriously I can't rest and it's getting worse , music helps at night but I'm really losing my mind..

Alcohol

How to ask any girl for date ? If she is your classmate ( clg ) 

Crush

So my best friend and her boyfriend got in a really bad fight yesterday and he said all the possible mean stuff to her everything which would provoke her trauma and even slapped her, yesterday she decided to break up and never look back and today when I met her she is back with him?????? I mean it's her life I understand but dude wtf? I don't want to go and tell her to break up or anything because it ll sound wrong because both of them are my friends but I really don't want her to lower her self respect so much or go through that again. Her boyfriend always blames her and scolds her in front of others... I can't digest the fact she came back with him 

Friends

I said to her call me when you get home and she hasn't called yet looks like she is homeless

Girlfriend

how to survive a breakup??????? i am crying weeping throwing up not wanting to move any part of my body i dont want to exist i cant survive this breakup. it's so scary to break up and then even worse to survive it like??? who made us like this i am so scared- i hope i go through this and come out like this is the first time i'm ever breaking up and i'm wondering if there's a reason why someone cant love me I dont think it's my fault though, when she left me, she should've also taught me how to survive this break up i hate this and i hate her now because she gave no reason? and that shows what kind of person u are and she just said we're not working out and i dont know what that means? I think it's such a shitty reason to break up like she could've just helped me, i'm a human with true feelings and i've only ever given her what she wanted, she's so chirpy and lively and i'm so scared someone else will replace me and love her indefinitely and she will also love back like why is life like this and i hate life so much and i loved her how will i survive this heartbreak this breakup is the worst break up for my life i'm feeling so terrible like i dont want to be in this space  anyone who has survived a break up, any ideas???? please help:(((

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