Another day!
When did I agree to take care of all his expenses?
After marriage expenses should be shared equally they say, some even say the finances become one.
Here is my marriage.
I had agreed upon sharing all expenses 50-50 if not me picking up the entire bill once in a while.
After the talks of divorce and separation. I have this guy (husband) barging into my office room and questioning me about every pending bill. He doesn’t spend a penny on house rent, groceries, maid, laundry, water and electric bills, telephone bills nor the internet.
He wants accountability of every penny I spend out my salary when I know nothing about his. Where is he spending his money? I asks me to transfer 9800/- for dog food because he paid the last months bill. What about all the bills that I have been paying?
Why does he want my money only when it is his needs that need spending on? What am I missing here? What’s going wrong?
I spend most of my salary on this house and the bills and his parents bills got nothing that I am saving.
I am not against spending money, cause it is only that money. But what irks me is how he demands for me to pay the bills when he does nothing to share.
Red flag. U need to talk this out. It’s a partnership. U r not the only one in the relationship. Clear it before things go out of hand
