Hey there, 
Standing up for yourself doesn't mean you disrespect your parents. If you both love each other and want to be together give it a fight. Because if you both let each other go after having everything that people nowadays crave for then you'll be making a mistake. 
If you don't have the courage now, you'll both be regretting this decision. And it will not just affect your life but many other lives. 
Think twice before you both take any action. 


Do you still love her? 
Does she still love you? 
If you both love each other then try to talk to each other about this and sort it out 

3am Thoughts

Frustrated

I need a girlfriend!

Frustrated and hungry

She is my personal brand of heroin.

A girl said she likes me. We went on the trip and had a really good time. Just after coming back she says she is has a weird feeling and is not able to feel anything like that now. It has been more than a month. I feel low and lack confidence. What should I do? I dont want to talk to ger again. But this feeling always reminds me of her and what she did.

Anxiety

My girlfriend keeps telling me that she feels like she's not good enough for me. At the same time she feels that she doesn't think that I love her. 
I have been trying to communicate with her and remind her how I think she's the one I've always wanted but when I ask questions as to why she feels the way she does she says that she doesn't know what she's feeling. 
I'm trying to look for any better way to communicate to her, if you guys have any advice it's much appreciated. 

Girlfriend

Even her negative reply to my proposal gives me an energy to love her more....

What should it be called? Love or my insanity?

Breakup

Soo, two months ago I broke up with my girl. She was upset about the whole thing. She blamed me for everything that transpired and called our relationship toxic. She told me to move on and also said that our thought processes were so different. I tried to explain to her how much I tried to become a better person for her but she wouldn't listen and told me that there was no need for me to change myself for someone. I haven't talked to her for months. The sad part was that we used to be really good friends. I loved talking to her and sharing things with her. Initially in our relationship, everything was going well. Then I somehow started to become insecure about her because of something that someone told me. I started to treat her badly but somewhere in my mind, I didn't want to do that. After some time I tried to approach her and asked her if we could still be friends. she agreed but we didn't talk much. Then one day I tried to explain to her how much she meant to me but during this conversation, I lost my cool. She didn't say anything. A few days later, she told one of my friends to tell me never to approach her again and also said that she has lost all feelings for me. It hurt me a lot. I never wanted all this to ever happen. I miss being with her. Somehow I feel that she still has some feelings for me. My friends told me to move on but I can't. I hate the fact that she still thinks that our relationship was toxic because of one instance. She never told me how she suffered. How was I supposed to know that she felt bad? I had asked her many times if she felt bad about anything, but she never said anything. I feel guilty about all this. And I haven't been able to forgive myself for it. I'm just a shadow of my former self. I need my mental peace back.

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