And one more week passed without any changes and with dhaklo mindset!!.

How does one change and make decisions when the right decisions are going to hurt other people ? 

How is that making right , right when it hurts people ?

It's Monday and I just think I should take a break.

Yes you are right I'm here for you don't take tension 

Life

Lately I feel really anxious due to the fact that I have exams coming up in college. I have a lot of parental pressure to be succesful even though I choose this field of psychology to free myself from my demons. Not to have more pressure to be successful and be the certain kind of psychologist that my Dad wants me to be. It's very hard. My anxiety has led me to procrastinate over and over again and I find myself bundled up with so much anxiety that I just waste my day unable to do anything. It all started as a spiral from feeling overwhelmed due to course work and online classes with having to stare at my phone and feeling so overwlemed by my hectic schedule. i kept on procrastinating and it feels like now i'm paying for it as I'm so overburdened that I don't even know where to really start

Anxiety

Hostel or pg in Mumbai for females? Please help!!
In low pay I.e under 5000

3am Thoughts

Please just read this and give your opinion
So tomorrow is my friend's birthday so she has invited us all( we're a group of 9) to her birthday party to a luxury resort
Now being very honest we're not that rich that someday when my birthday comes I can invite my friends to a resort and all so I'm not going and all the people in my group are damn rich
Like for the surprise party also they decided to gift her like 17 things because she's turning 17 and that only cost around 2500 
Like first we decided to celebrate her birthday like after school in a ground nearby with like a surprise party but then birthday girl called me now and told me about the party 
My parents told me No
I understand but now I just feel excluded from the group
Like last week they went to restaurant to eat..I didn't go because that would just cost soo high for one person in that we would eat whole family..then they meet up at a friend's house for group study but I didn't go because If I go I'll have to also invite them someday and I live in joint family so my mom wouldn't allow
They all time discuss about how they enjoyed and all and I just feel sad
I feel left out guys
Just don't know what to do


FOMO

Ever feel like your parents chose to leave you alone and by yourself because they think your really independent but you actually crave attention and praise but you don’t say anything about it because you don’t wanna seem selfish? Cuz that feeling sucks.

Ok so I'm in a relationship and it's been 6 months since we're together. In the starting everything was good n we were happy together.. but after 3 months it bcm dry... I waited for like 2 hrs for his reply i tried to show love n all n he jst reply with short sentences or words like hmm. It bcm irritating... I undrstnd tht there's a phase in relationship where we hv to wrk hard in our feelings n fix things... So one day i opened up with my feelings tht its been days since we've talked like we used to do before... We're in the same skool n same class n he barely talks to me... So i was too irritated n sad at the same tym... So i tried fixing things n he replies so sweetly tht yes we'll fix it n i was happy bt again he started giving short replies. I confess myself that he mst be busy he must be doing smthng but he's not verbal with me n don't communicate so I can't force MYSELF to think anymore it sucks. Now after 6 months i was so done with this he don't pay attention to me.. so i got angry n i argued with him i said that I'm so done with shit im not breaking up but pls im so done u hv annoyed the hell out of me. And then he was like sorry let's fix it, im shy that's why I don't talk. N now from 2 days he's TRYING to give me attention msging me alot trying to be like we used to be.. bt i still haven't said i love u back to him im so angry... I love him n i was so happy that now he's paying attention but it feels more like that he's ghosting me.. n i don't feel the attraction or attachment that i wanted... What should i do?? Plss help me sksksksksksksk

Boys and loyalty


Crossover that never existed and never gonna happen

Other

Please help me out how to move on !!
I'm just stuck up & confused about the things around me...

Exhausted

tired.
Very... tired. 
Constantly feel like I'm being used and then ignored by my immediate family. 
Feeling alone. 
Scared of talking too much about my feelings. I feel even now that this place isn't safe for me to vent. I can't help it, it's ingrained in my psyche. Like somehow, the wrong people will find out the things I say and I'll just be punished for revealing how I really feel. 
Is it safe for me to be here, to talk about what's going on? It's so scary trying to piece together how I'm feeling, where my jumbled thoughts are going. 
Right now, I work a dead end job, one of three in the past two years. Everywhere I go I feel like I'll collapse of exhaustion. I work hard, but they take advantage of my kindness and work ethic and run me til I want to drop. I like them, but I feel like I'm constantly trying to please everyone and it's becoming too much. 
My mother is the core of my self-issues. I love her as well, but I know she has done bad things and struggled to be a parent. My brother and I deserved better. 
I am in a constant battle of low self-esteem and nearly no confidence. I try and try but I never feel like I can catch on. My friends are progressing through their lives, but I'm 23 and still living at home struggling to make ends meet, and I feel like a failure. 
I don't even know where to start. 

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