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Ashley @bloopbloop

An old friend of mind just placed his hand on my shoulders didnt touch me but rested his hand on my shoulder one year ago that time me n my bf broke up n today after a year he saw that pic n he wants to breakup coz he is not ok with it, although i dobt see nothing wrong i still dont let my self be touched by anyone even side hug n i changed for him… he knows still he is angry n wants to break up… am i that wrong or is he narrow minded

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Ashley @bloopbloop

Its the 100th time i just cant. Honestly ill be glad if we break up at tgis point 3 years ww have been together i sacrificed hell for him so did he he loves me dearly we both do but at tgis point love alone cant work. Once i do somthing that disappoints him, he disrespects me n says things like “show me all pics were he must have held ur waist” , “ im leaveing u go hug them n stick with them (chipak unke sath)” n it hurts like hell coz i just want some respect after the love nothing else

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Anonymous

He is not narrow minded, he thinks you let him put the hand on you. But you keep the picture for so long, it triggered him. Although you must care what he dislikes.

Ashley @bloopbloop

I dont pay even slight attention, they have been my friends for 4 years a hand resting in shoulders cant be so wrong… especially bringing it up now when he knows i donr even do this much is just upsetting

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Anonymous

He is very possessive?

Ashley @bloopbloop

Some times but he did change after 3rd year but he again got triggered after this pic of last year

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Anonymous

But why he didn’t understand

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Anonymous

He’s good to you ?

Ashley @bloopbloop

Not when it comes to male friends

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Anonymous

Male frnds nhi hone chahiye mtlb 😂😂😂
Insecure h sayd

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Anonymous

When the spark is gone or boys fall out of love they don’t breakup first they wait for you to make mistakes or find different excuses to get rid of us and use that as a reason for breakup. Not worth it tbh

Ashley @bloopbloop

He is different. He loves me that’s for sure but he is possessive so can’t deal with guys near me that’s all

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Aakash @aakash_itis

Exactly true 👍

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Açha Bacha @soft_forest_2

Apka wo dost narrow minded hai chor do usse…

Ashley @bloopbloop

Kisliye

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Anonymous

Kyu ki wo apki disrespect krta hai aur itna sab sach dikhane ke baat aur batane ke baad bhi usse vishwas nhi hai…

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Anonymous

No one would like to have their partner touched by the opposite gender,
He is not narrow minded

Ashley @bloopbloop

True i agree but he could have told me respectfully and i would have listened and I consider his opinion he is my top priority. But he went on to disrespect me which i really didn’t appreciate that to for a pic which is 1 year old even tho i consider it was new to him, still being a gentleman wouldnt cost him much

Sanket @sanket

Agreed, we males are really bad with the words we say, we need to work on that. Disrespecting the partner is not at all good, for the relationship and for the individuals as well.

How about conveying your thoughts to him? I’m sure you must have told him not to be disrespectful, how did it go?

And how about asking him why he uses such words? What upsets him and what he wants you to do??

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