An advice for simps to not be simps (from a former simp)
Bhai , wo nahi degi. Stop simping . This low self esteem attitude jo hai tumhara , work on it . I’m genuinely telling you this. Stop being nice to girls all the time and focus on being more kind to yourself . Tumhara depression ke jo reasons hai , one of the main reason is lack of reciprocal attention from the opposite gender. Tum simping karoge to wo nahi jayega ulta aur badhta hai. 6 mahine and 10000 ki goliya khaai tab dimaag jaake thikaane pe aaya hai ki simping nahi karna and self respect nahi dena kisi ko. Yaha pe kitne log serious problem leke aate hai, unko becharo ko koi response nahi tunhare pass, ek ladki sirf bored likh de to tum tut padte ho . Stop giving random people itna bhaav and help those who are in genuine need of it .
Really happy to see this thought before sleeping. Thank you for sharing! :)
Peace bro ✌️
Explain please, I think I might need this
Its simple, dont text random girls first. Look to help people who have genuine concerns. And stop expecting every girl you talk to as a potential partner, ki yaar ek chance to banta hai iske saath aise. If you think like this, you will probably never have a relationship where you are valued. Tera autonomy khatam ho jayega relationship mein (that too assuming someone agrees to be with you ). Simps generally get best friendzoned (speaking from personal experience ) . If you feel this is not cup of your tea , its fine. But dont help people with expectation of something in return, especially if they are girls.
Well its not platonic tbh. You had romantic interests in her which she did not reciprocate . Our brain tries to trick us into thinking ki you were not serious about them or it was platonic to save ourselves from being heartb roken really hard. I feel you
