am in a relationship for 5 yrs, everything was fine until the guy involved his parents, they disliked me without any probable reason coz honest to god I was nothing but good to them, they blamed my kundali and rejected the relationship, I went to multiple astrologer in Delhi with the guy as he asked me to, but nothing mattered to them , 2 months back they called my parents and abused them on the call, and the guy he did nothing and started lying to his parents about the break-up which never happened, now I want this to end! But he is blaming me for everything,what should I do?
If anyone can give me any suggestions I would be really thankful to you, as I am feeling more enraged each day, I get panick attacks because of what happened!
Akash Dalal @skybroker
just one question. what will you do if I ask you to jump from 20 floors? will you jump? if no then why?
How is that relevant?
Akash Dalal @skybroker
okay, what I mean was that you wouldn’t. becoz your life is as important as it is right now.
what I also mean was the person you want to stay with doesn’t stand for you when you most needed it. and moreover it blames you for everything but in reality, you were ready but he wasn’t nor his parents are. you did nothing. agar kundali see shadi hoti aaj aadhe love marriages hote hi nhi. it is all in the head (the kundali, and the dosh).
abusing parents is not at all good. I totally oppose that.
after this, it is simple to know that after all the hustle you are not getting what you wanted so it is better to accept and move on.
talk about it by telling him that you don’t feel any more comfortable becoz of the current scenario. and you want to end it…
plz remember to think twice, thrice before coming to any conclusion.
your decision can impact everyone around you. do not hesitate in doing so. after all, this is your life. and all I want you to be is happy and safe. :)
Not trying to commit suicide or anything, I know more than that, thank you so much for being so kind and compassionate! I need him to understand that he need to let me go, he is literally stalking me and my friends by asking them to convince me to be with him, I am trying very hard to make him understand that it won’t go anywhere as he cannot decide , but he is refusing to let me go or to go ahead and think about making this official as his parents are against it, so I don’t know what to do, I have tried everything
Akash Dalal @skybroker
you know right our parents are more important if things aren’t right., you have to make him understand that relationship time is now over. and now you both have to be apart. but the way you said he is staking and calling n crying is just going to make the situation worse as most people only know to get attached but they don’t know how to be detached. this is something that is worrying me, if the person doesn’t understand in the time being then he might go in a rush to get you back. this is only making me more concerned about you. becoz the situation you are in is not an easy one. and please take care of yourself in the time being. I know this is not easy but your health and well-being are also important.
the guy sounds like a dick
first not defending you and now blaming you for what happened
do you still have feelings for him after this?
The more I am with him in this the more my mom’s crying face flashes before my eyes, everything is vivid, but he is not letting me break up, I have tried blocking him but he keeps on calling from other numbers and crying
If I were in your place, I’d keep ignoring him completely
And maybe file a complaint if it gets out of hand
Thanks, I will do just that if he does not get it,coz he is now resorting to stalk me and my friends
Blame game!!? if the guy you trust can’t even love you for what you are then probably you need to make up your mind and LEAVE!! or may be because of stress and pressure he is speaking all of this. you need to figure this thing out by talking to him alone. I think if you sit and talk with a cool mind & think a little practically this problem can be solved like a piece of cake.
Do you think I didn’t try all of that? I did try to talk to him but he used to start yelling on me, that because of me his parents became hostile and they are not like that, they are the sweetest people in the entire world! So I thought I should for the very first time in my life put this out and get a little perspective
