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Evara @evara

Am I selfish to tell my boyfriend who is working hard for our future together to spend more time with me? I believe in “Kal ke khushi ke liye apna aaj na Kho do” and he’s been working so much that our house has become more of a break time spot than the home he so wants to create.

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Anonymous

Mitr pyar sai unhe smjhaiye

@intuitive_monk

Sit with him on coffee. Explain him that he needs to balance both. In order to pursue long term goal he should not forget his near ones

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Shivay @shivay_

Heyy are you alright.
Whats been going on in your heart.
Well I guess your boy friend just wants to provide you with a better life after marriage.
That’s the things with boys. They are slow in showing and expressing their emotions.
All they know is that they want to give you a life which you deserve. A life jisme aapko dikkat na aaye.

And he’s working so hard for you only.
And yes it’s true ki kal ke liye aaj nahi khona chaiye. But humara jeevan hi ek acche aur behtar kal ki umeed me aage chalta.
Warna kaun chahega itni mehnat karna.

Aap uska saath dijiye. Be with him. And try and plan for little surprises like if sat and sun uska off rehta to try and do little things which makes him happy.

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Evara @evara

Haanji aapne bilkul sahi kaha hai. I sat him down and told him how I feel and asked him how he felt as well and he said exactly what you did. Shayad me thora selfish soch ri hu kyuki mujhe vo hamesha saath chahiye aur vo possible nhi hai. I need to give him all my support at the moment because he’s probably exhausted from all the work he’s doing but won’t say anything just to spend a few hours with me.

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Anonymous

@Evara can you please message me I need your genuine help

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Evara @evara

I’m sorry? What kind of help?

@great_delight_4

Its a genuine help can I tell you in message if you dont mind?

@great_delight_4

Can I tell you my problem in message if you dont mind

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