Am I selfish for not wanting my girlfriend to kill herself? I know it hurts her to be here, and I know she wants more than anything to be gone, but isn’t it normal for me to want to make her stay with me? I don’t know what to do. I am conflicted and afraid of losing her. But whatever I feel, I know she feels 100x worse. I don’t mean to put this on whoever may see it, but I lost all my close friends and now I have no one to turn to. I’m sorry.
ITS NOT SELFISH
And please seek help. Go to a counselor.
No one deserves to die.
Make her feel loved and communication is the key and so does respecting privacy
Tell her that you love her. Ask her what’s on her mind. If she doesn’t want to tell you then say “it’s alright, im here for you”. Give her suprises and make her feel comfortable. Try to talk to her about counselor tho, it would help alot.
Also keep an eye to your mental health too.
First of all,don’t be sorry for opening up.
Have a glass of water.
Its not cruel to think that your closest ones should leave because in some way we think that they will be relieved of pain.
Spend as much time as possible with her.Have good memories.
Let’s not hope these to be her last days but if they are ,make sure they are the best ones for both of you.
I don’t know what both of you are going through but
having an emotional support is the most wonderful thing for anyone.She is so blessed.
If you want to vent yourself out do it on a diary.
You are free to talk here.
Love ya pal.