Am I a coward? Or selfish? Literally everyone else in my family, like my cousins and sisters are so much better than me In like every way. They’re all athletic, they do sports like netball and little athletics and dance and I don’t do any of that. They’re all fit and have friends and confidence and I have my anxiety, no friends, or confidence and independence. I don’t even have a licence and all my cousins and sisters do. Im like the last young adult in my family to not have their Ls or Ps. What is it that makes me so cowardly!? I don’t like this. I just seem to back out of everything and sit in my room like a loner. I’m so over life.
Make some freinds do share your feelings twalk about your problems this is the only way or else it may cause more problems in your future
I’m not really good at making friends to be honest…
No problem twalk to strangers may be you get that freind who can help you out to get out of this anxiety
Hayley Logue @hayleyl
That’s actually not a bad idea!
trust me the things you can twalk to strangers and get the best vibes you cant get easly from anyone else its my experiance
yess share your problems what you feel hiw was your day tell about what was the reason if you had a bad day or something happns
Hayley Logue @hayleyl
Hmm, thanks, I think I get what you mean. Sometimes it’s so easy to talk to strangers about anything rather than the people you know
exactly
So start it from today All the best for your conversations👍
Hayley Logue @hayleyl
Thank you 💜
can twalk if you want
Really!? That’d be great.
what are the main issues you feeling
I’m very anxious, and I feel really…down and very dull
And why you feel like is it your brother or cousins make you feel or its any other reason see there are alway a reason behind so let it come and speak about it
I just feel lame and stupid. Like I’m a joke. There’s not many things I’m good at and I don’t really do anything to make anyone proud.
There are not many things you are good at but there are the things you are good at so just through it why you are thinking about the negative points just do your best to positive things
Hayley Logue @hayleyl
I don’t know, I think negative thoughts suit me.
So y you are going through your negative things dude think about what you are good at
No one is good at everything as you have written your brother and sisters are athlete they are good in that you can see that but they must bad in other things to which you are able to see because they dont let you
Hayley Logue @hayleyl
Uhh…writing stories, I guess. And I can’t think of anything else
Hayley Logue @hayleyl
Well maybe painting and drawing too.
what are you good at?
Hayley Logue @hayleyl
I’m good at painting and drawing and writing
So paint when you feel low if it makes you happy
share your paintings let people know
Yess
After all it’s you,you are you,you’re not your cousins/sisters or anyone else!Take things easy.You’re an amazing human being who has no idea what you want from life,but you’ll get the idea slowly,you’ll think highly of yourself not immediately but definitely.If your cousins are doing good you can too.Don’t think yourself as a coward,okay?You’ll do great.
