Tahsin Ansari @tahsinans
Am feeling alone, no one talk to me. I am an avg student but my parents are expecting me to clear competitive exam. Iam the eldest one amoung my siblings and all future pressure i am experiencing. Is undisciable
do you really wanna study what they are expecting you to study?
Study is important thing, you should set your goal according to your interest
First of all come out of this pressure that you are the eldest one so you have to be hard on yourself … see everyone is good in their own way … don’t pressurise yourself and be so stressful about it … I know sometimes it’s hard to manage the expectations of our parents but dear one know first of all you are enough just the way you are , first accept yourself and then slowly slowly work on achieving your targets … if you achieve them it’s great but if you don’t achieve , just suppose … suppose the worst that could happen but even if that happens just accept yourself … don’t be hard on yourself and so stressed … if you want to achieve your goals be creative about it … look how you could make a study plan, manage all the study material, study smarter and work in a more better way … give your 100% … if this exam is in your destiny you will achieve it …. And you said you are an average student that means either you don’t have interest in this right or either you are unable to do it … also I don’t think one should do things without interest and If it’s the only option you got then try to build interest in the respective exam … but first calm down … it’s just a exam … and life me Ase exam jobs ayge but the point is don’t pressurise yourself … I know we all have dream to complete the expectations of our parents but something’s are to be left on destiny and time … and if you are unable to do it then do it once, try and give your best and then look what happens ….but if you want to give up on it then there are other ways also to get job in life because at the end of the day we all do job for living happily … but that doesn’t mean you give up in fun … think about this situation in calm and sincere way I am sure you will get some solution and btw which exam are you preparing for ? Also hey there smile please … things will get fine for sure very soon …:) god bless you 🤗
Don’t feel alone we all go through dilemmas in life one or the other day … many of us struggle with career and parents expectations till the day we settle down in life … you are not alone … life will get better …
Same🤝
