Am a girl, I body shame myself, because of people, am not fat or anything, I just got this kinda fast growth at 15 ,at it’s really affecting my relationship with others, my male teacher, he kept trying to flirt with me, and I got disgusted by it, and in my hostel, there’s this girl that kept on touching me inappropriately, anything I resist, she kept saying things like, that I behave really childish, and that she isn’t going to hurt me, and I don’t know what to do about everything, am just really overwhelmed, and I want to show a good example to my sister, I don’t want her following bad examples, my parents are divorced, and it’s really hard to open up.
It sounds like you’re going through a really tough time, and I want you to know that it’s okay to feel overwhelmed by everything you’re experiencing. Body changes, unwanted attention, and dealing with inappropriate behavior from others can be very difficult, especially when you feel like you’re handling it all on your own.
It’s important to remember that your feelings are valid, and you deserve to be treated with respect. No one has the right to make you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, whether it’s a teacher or someone in your hostel. It might help to talk to a trusted adult, like a counselor, who can offer support and guide you through this.
Please don’t hesitate to reach out to me if you want to discuss this further. You’re not alone in this, and there are people who care about your well-being.
Thanks so much, it’s really hard, cause am being pressurized into something, am not comfortable doing, and anytime I try to resist, she just get’s more aggressive on me, she says things like, ‘Come on Irene, just allow me do this, I really do care about you, stop acting hard to get’, and we’re roomates. And with my parents getting divorced and my teacher trying to flirt with me, I feel really stuck, and my brain doesn’t know how to handle everything ,cause my sister is practically looking up to me. I don’t know who to talk to, and how can I reach out to you?
Drop ur id we can connect in dm
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Sent u dm request
Ur using app or website ?
Oh sadly there’s no option for that in website. We can connect only in app
Ok there you can find my request in the dm section
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Mudit @mj16_
Wanna talk then dm
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