All suggestions are welcome!
I’ve known my best friend for 4 years now. I had eventually developed feelings for him in the past 2 years. Me being me finally gathered courage and confessed my feelings to him. But he was polite and explained that he never saw me that way. I accepted that and decided to move on. But after 2 months, to my surprise or rather shock, he confessed that he had felt the same way but couldn’t convey. This time, I genuinely explained him how wrong it would be for me as I had no feelings now. He understood and everything is fine.
Do you all think that I made a grave mistake by getting over too early or he did by not accepting his feelings earlier?
P.S: We’re still best friends and each other’s go to person!
**UPDATE: My friend told me that he is going to officially aske me out tomorrow. I feel like saying YES. Should I???
You should have some time for yourself and ask yourself, do u still love him? If u do then why not say YES tomorrow…
Do you feel saying YES because you still love him or because you feel like it better to be in a relationship than being single ??
Also tbh i don’t understand him having a change of heart just after two months, like why did he not accept you then (this probably answers your doubt that he was in the wrong by rejecting you)
