All my past experiences have made me come up with a theory:

**The Theory Of Suppression Of Feelings.** 

According to it, you never stop feeling something towards someone. Your initial feelings are just suppressed by newer ones ones. For example, if you ever like someone, you never stop liking them. Your feelings of likingness are just suppressed by other feelings(anger, sadness, jealousy, etc)
This is why the first impression is the most important one.
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-TheUnacknowledged

You sure about this? I feel over time our initial feelings do go away. I dated someone for the LONGEST time(5 years) and it's been 3 years since we broke up and I can say for sure that I don't have feelings for him anyomore. Infact I don't even think about him anymore....

Lonely

26 and I am still single 😥

Adulting

Is anybody up for a 2am convo??

3am Thoughts

Lately, I feel like there's a cloud of misfortune following me. It started with losing some hair and being sick often, making me feel tired. Then my test scores dropped and I began to doubt my abilities. But the real shock came when I discovered that most of the high scorers achieved their scores by cheating. It has dragged my score down and even after pleading for a fair re-evaluation, it seems like someone is deliberately hiding the truth. This happened over and over again.

If that wasn't enough, my grandfather fell seriously ill. Despite working hard, it feels like the world is rewarding dishonesty and deception, making my honesty seem like a foolish choice. Even seeking support from friends was like shouting into the void, as my messages were met with silence.

I know others may be facing greater challenges, but these setbacks left me feeling extremely depressed and alone

Depression

A friend of mine has been giving us a hard time. We had helped her overcome a traumatic relationship but she went back to that and now is all changed. She had started becoming toxic towards us and gaslighted us into believing that we were hurting her feelings when in the last few years she has been hurting all of us emotionally to the maximum. Two days ago, she made it too hard for us and we began giving a silent treatment to her gaslighting. But now, this has triggered her past trauma of being left alone. I don't want her to be in trauma but I dont know how we would tackle this situation otherwise. ( talking and discussing things with her is of no use. She ends up blaming us for everything and never once thinks of herself to be on the wrong side). 

Friends

It do feel stupid when we are fighting about man....

It all start 4 years ago when I have crush on this guy(he is my friend classmate)...being her classmate she do know about my feeling toward this guy and us( my 10 girls) always make fun of it...but little do I know she is quite close with this guy and his younger sister....my feeling toward this guy was serious and how can I not be angry when my friend that know my feeling to my crush and like purposely getting close to him...

But as to protect our friendship I ignore it and be like 'yeah they are classmate so unpuposerly they will getting close right' so just let them be them...

As the end of school year I gain all the strength and confess to my crush...and guess what I got rejected......his reason was he like someone else...and yeah that year end pretty tragic for me... 

Start next year school session on early February I got to know that my crush who rejected me are dating my friend who knows my feeling toward this guy from the beginning.....

It is my fault to be angry....if you're on my shoes what do you think you'll do.....

And now four years has gone and you just still can stop being so anxious about i might still your man huhhhhh



Hii there! Anybody wanna talk?😃

Other

It’s so great to be able to just share my thoughts here and seeing how kind / helpful strangers can be :)

Life

So I have theses 3 friends were like a group ig and I’m always left out they tell me I don’t do anything but mess around I don’t really I just want them to laugh at my jokes smile but no instead they point out my insecurities and when where in a group project they leave me out and say I don’t do anything how I’m a supposed to know if you don’t tell me what to do and leave me it’s honestly messed up I don’t know what to do anymore I want them to accept how I am and be part of there group I feel tired of waiting for them.

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