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Anonymous

Agr koi ladka bhut zyada care show kare, aapko sabse zyada importance de and Har time aapki attention seek kare
But at the end bolde that we’re open to look for others… so please koi mujhe explain karega what exactly this guy is looking for??
My thoughts are maybe he’s into flings and he’s trying to get something from me issliye aise act Kar raha hai and second he’s having feelings for me but he don’t want to accept them
Please guys do let me know your suggestions on this

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Unknown @ignored_guy

It’s simple he likes you he is seeing that you also have same feelings for him…

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Anonymous

But if he’s having feelings why is he even saying me that we’re open to anyone and if someday we found someone we can go for it?

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Anonymous

Maybe at that time he would be angry with you or maybe you guys would have fought on something

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Anonymous

No it’s like a normal conversation we’re having and in between he just said this thing

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Anonymous

Maybe some thing might have hurted him of yours… or else don’t contact him for few days … let him make a call this tym … n make him realise the value of your love … n if he don’t contact you within few days drop him message what’s wrong with you … n whatever he says u feel like a valid reason then sort out things n if u feel like you have been taken for granted than leave him tell him to better stay away … this is what I feel … see. If it helps you 😇stay happy

@lonelysoul_8401

Yeah maybe he is scared to tell you!!

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Anonymous

That suggest me something to make my doubt clear

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ayna @aynakhan

Look it’s really really hard to predict something may be he showing all this to get physical with you or may be he really cares for you you can’t say it but if he is changing his way like one day he cares for you other day he is in his own world then there is something fishy I would suggest you don’t think too much gi with the flow and don’t get too attached.

@lonelysoul_8401

Yes u r right too but not all the boys are same yr not all the boys feel that they want to get physical and all maybe he cares but something is in his mind and is scared to tell

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Anonymous

He’s never sounded fishy to me but yeah I got easily insecure sometimes because he’s having so many friends and he regularly do parties and stuff
But he somewhat assure that right now no one is there except you in my life so is it makes any sense to you?

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Anonymous

That may be case

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Anonymous

Scared of what??? If he already have an idea that I’ve feelings too then afraid of what?

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Anonymous

If this is the thing I think then he is into you then you should give him signals that you also like him then see what will happen if he really likes you then he will propose you

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Anonymous

No I’m not taking his space it’s just like when he said that open for anyone line to me I got insecure and I think anyone can develop insecurities if they really like someone

@lonelysoul_8401

Actually u r right give him his own space just see what he do if he is onto u he will surely do something or he will too give u hints about liking
Till then dont get attached and dont feel insecure

@lonelysoul_8401

Truelyy said!!!

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@lonelysoul_8401

Exactlyyy u play your own role but if u genuinely care for this guy then try to give him the hints that u like him too maybe he come and propose u or tell u in no time!!
U should go for it!!😄

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Anonymous

I gave him some hints and told him indirectly and I guess he has some idea over this
But he’s not doing anything

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ayna @aynakhan

Then don’t do anything. Then he is playing with you I guess

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Anonymous

I tried a lot talking to him but everytime I got some mixed answer which really made me confused 😕

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Anonymous

But if he’s playing what’s the point of talking or waiting he’ll going to make me fool either way

@lonelysoul_8401

Exactly

@lonelysoul_8401

Gurll dont wait
I think u should not wait just confess your feelings to him and tell him everything then wait for his ans…till then dontttttt get attached and dont overthink

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Anonymous

If I said it’s too late coz I’m already attached 😅 and you really think if he’s in casual dating he’ll say no directly? Or he’ll going to continue his play?

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Anonymous

See if he give h mixed ans or he is confusing u maybe he is into casual dating

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Anonymous

Then should I cut off with him?

@lonelysoul_8401

Naah just ask him last time and in such a manner as u will leave him and will never talk to him again so that he should feel too just confront him !!!

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Anonymous

But what if he played again some move and gain my trust ?

@lonelysoul_8401

Just go for it rn and wait for his ans

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Hope @cureplace

He is not into you.

Rather if he leave, he gonna tell you thhis" shuru se he bola tha we are in open relationship, meri galti nhi hai aab"

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