Agr koi ladka bhut zyada care show kare, aapko sabse zyada importance de and Har time aapki attention seek kare
But at the end bolde that weβre open to look for othersβ¦ so please koi mujhe explain karega what exactly this guy is looking for??
My thoughts are maybe heβs into flings and heβs trying to get something from me issliye aise act Kar raha hai and second heβs having feelings for me but he donβt want to accept them
Please guys do let me know your suggestions on this
Unknown @ignored_guy
Itβs simple he likes you he is seeing that you also have same feelings for himβ¦
But if heβs having feelings why is he even saying me that weβre open to anyone and if someday we found someone we can go for it?
Maybe at that time he would be angry with you or maybe you guys would have fought on something
No itβs like a normal conversation weβre having and in between he just said this thing
Maybe some thing might have hurted him of yoursβ¦ or else donβt contact him for few days β¦ let him make a call this tym β¦ n make him realise the value of your love β¦ n if he donβt contact you within few days drop him message whatβs wrong with you β¦ n whatever he says u feel like a valid reason then sort out things n if u feel like you have been taken for granted than leave him tell him to better stay away β¦ this is what I feel β¦ see. If it helps you πstay happy
Yeah maybe he is scared to tell you!!
That suggest me something to make my doubt clear
ayna @aynakhan
Look itβs really really hard to predict something may be he showing all this to get physical with you or may be he really cares for you you canβt say it but if he is changing his way like one day he cares for you other day he is in his own world then there is something fishy I would suggest you donβt think too much gi with the flow and donβt get too attached.
Yes u r right too but not all the boys are same yr not all the boys feel that they want to get physical and all maybe he cares but something is in his mind and is scared to tell
Heβs never sounded fishy to me but yeah I got easily insecure sometimes because heβs having so many friends and he regularly do parties and stuff
But he somewhat assure that right now no one is there except you in my life so is it makes any sense to you?
That may be case
Scared of what??? If he already have an idea that Iβve feelings too then afraid of what?
If this is the thing I think then he is into you then you should give him signals that you also like him then see what will happen if he really likes you then he will propose you
No Iβm not taking his space itβs just like when he said that open for anyone line to me I got insecure and I think anyone can develop insecurities if they really like someone
Actually u r right give him his own space just see what he do if he is onto u he will surely do something or he will too give u hints about liking
Till then dont get attached and dont feel insecure
Truelyy said!!!
Exactlyyy u play your own role but if u genuinely care for this guy then try to give him the hints that u like him too maybe he come and propose u or tell u in no time!!
U should go for it!!π
I gave him some hints and told him indirectly and I guess he has some idea over this
But heβs not doing anything
ayna @aynakhan
Then donβt do anything. Then he is playing with you I guess
I tried a lot talking to him but everytime I got some mixed answer which really made me confused π
But if heβs playing whatβs the point of talking or waiting heβll going to make me fool either way
Exactly
Gurll dont wait
I think u should not wait just confess your feelings to him and tell him everything then wait for his ansβ¦till then dontttttt get attached and dont overthink
If I said itβs too late coz Iβm already attached π and you really think if heβs in casual dating heβll say no directly? Or heβll going to continue his play?
See if he give h mixed ans or he is confusing u maybe he is into casual dating
Then should I cut off with him?
Naah just ask him last time and in such a manner as u will leave him and will never talk to him again so that he should feel too just confront him !!!
But what if he played again some move and gain my trust ?
Just go for it rn and wait for his ans
Hope @cureplace
He is not into you.
Rather if he leave, he gonna tell you thhis" shuru se he bola tha we are in open relationship, meri galti nhi hai aab"