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Anonymous

After watching like 20-30 informative videos on childbirth… plus, the struggles before n after, especially the point that I’ve never wanted to have a kid but my fiance does, I’ve only become super scared of this. I’m terrified of the possibilities… I mean… Episiotomy… c sec… coma… What not… I just can’t stop thinking what all could happen… And I would never want to do that to myself and my body. Any positives on this or anything that would change my mind?

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Anonymous

Hmm

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Asunder @asooh

People get on cars nd loose limbs or die in accidents sometimes but you still ride a car 🤷

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Anonymous

So bearing a child, delivering one, raising that child… is as easy as driving a car? Wow! So intelligent of you!

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I said nothing about driving nd i believe that if you weren’t trying to come across as smart you’d have understood what my point was🤷

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Anonymous

🤣🤣 I definitely didn’t bring any joy in my parents’ lives and I’d rather not discuss that. But tbh, that’s not even the issue.

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Anonymous

Is it possible or ur inlaws n husband will agree to go for adoption or surrogacy?

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Anonymous

No wayyyyy
My own family doesn’t support cuz of a ton of medical reasons…

@witty_ocean

As a psychology student in the development, first, you have to really try to understand the different stages that comes with it. I have been taking two courses and early childhood psychology, and I have learned a lot. 

@intuitive_monk

Try to share your insecurities with your partner.

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Anonymous

Been there, done that. Instead, he says that “motherhood” will change me and make me feel good abt myself…
Idk how

@intuitive_monk

Then you should consider about delaying it a further. But keep in mind that there is something called healthy biological age

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Anonymous

I need a healthy biological age for death now

@intuitive_monk

Are you pregnant already?

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Anonymous

Lol hell no. Nor do I want to be!

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Anonymous

Then just never be. Do the surrogacy.

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