After sharing what I was thinking I feel much better. Now I am only thinking that I have to tolerate and be in this relationship until my baby is 18 years. Before coming to this platform I tried to express my feelings with his family and husband but with husband I ended up with argument and his family said that after being a girl we have to compromise. I can’t share with my family because I can’t say to them that I regret marrying him after going against them. 
So I am going to compromise until baby is 18.

I just don’t want a broken family for my child. I don’t to make decisions for him.

Confusion

I start talking with a guy and became very comfortable sharing things with him.  It isn't being long we started talking but I feel close to him. I wanna talk to him at the end of the day, wanna hear his voice but we don't talk on calls because it's me who is not comfortable. But he is too good, he understand me, my concerns and insecurities. He never force me to do anything I don't want to and I like it about him. Normally I talk with different people but never felt this before. We just talk as how friends do normal but there is this feeling to know him more, to know what he like and what not. I think I start liking him and this is the first time I am feeling something like this. And I am scared, to be betrayed. My overthinking mind don't let me trust anyone. There's always so many "what ifs" at the back of my mind that doesn't let me step further and I always ended up to take a step back. What if it is not real? What if he is all fake? What if he is only being polite but not honest? And so on. We are opposite of each other, our pov's don't match but at the end we express ourselves and try to make each  other understand our points. I don't know what to make out of it? I am confused and so so scared.

I have kept my feelings from my ex boyfriend for  7 year and 6 months...then finally I told him that my 1lik1e for him turned into love when when he was with his ex girlfriend..now he has a now girl..and I said I know you never felt this way..he said I am glad you know..I'm not interested..not at all..even thou I told him I have a boyfriend now and I want to stop feeling this way about him..he said that's my problem and I should no bother him again..I said I will never bother you ever again...I still feel the same way for him and because of this my boyfriend and I are on a break now..my boyfriend reminds me little about him but I dont feel as how I should😔....should we up?

do you believe in 3 day rule in relationship?

Popularized by the romcom, the three-day dating rule insists that a person wait three full days before contacting his/her bf/gf. It says give him 3 days if he comes back, it loves you. If he don't he doesn't.

Is it true? I had s huge fight with him. After which we noth are not talking from several days. I am worried that he won't talk...

Relationships

Hi
I had a relationship of 10 years ..n now we r at the of marriage now..and he broke up with me.   I feel so bad... soo alone.. we broke up in july this year but we still talk sometimes.. but i dont know what to do .. i feel miserable.. 

Breakup

my ex and I broke up a year ago because he got bored of me. He randomly removed me from insta 3 months ago but i eventually got over him. Now he starts blaming me and talking bad abt me and it breaks my heart and cant let me fully heal

So i needed a help..
I had a guy best friend..we used to talk a lot a month ago..then slowly he started replying late and short replies..i asked him but then i gave up and i thought it was his fault..he started ignoring..we barely talked in this month and he never bothered to message me from his side..and the time we were talking i only used to msg him first..
So today i was just deleting things in my phone and clearing chats i found his chats and i was reading through..and i found that i misunderstood every time..i don't know what i was up to that time..and now i realize what his chats meant and i though something else..
I regret no trusting him and misunderstanding him..he tried at that time to tell that he didn't mean..and we ended up having fights because of me..which i thought was because of him back then..After reading the chats all together after a month i realized my mistake..idk i used to act before like he ows me anything..idk why?
i regret losing him..Can I him back in my life?

Friends

Hi 👋 
It's my first time here hehe so this will be my first post.

Uhm, I haven't been in a relationship since birth, just have some crushes of course (and most of them are girls) but I'm already mid 20's and I don't but I just wanted suddenly to be in a relationship (I know it's not easy) maybe because during this lockdown I've been watching some romantic kdramas and movies that I'm picturing myself what if I have someone like those couples HAHAHA 

I've got some suitors back then who asked me on a date and agreed to come but then I find myself after couple of weeks loosing interests on those guys. I felt like I'm not good in keeping people :( 

So now this, I have a college classmates who had a crush on me and even helped me with my thesis back then which eventually stopped since I think he thought I took him for granted. 

He is now chatting me on messenger and talking about things, I don't know his motive but I'm still replying to his messages, but there's one time that I didn't reply after a week, I saw his tweet saying that if someone wants to play a game they should end it not leaving it's opponent halfway through. After reading that tweet I let couple of days passed by and reply to his messages HAHA I really don't know what he wants from me if he just wants to be friends or what. 

He's also asking me out after the lockdown but I told him that I will go only if we have one of my friend to come with us. I'm uncomfortable being around with guys alone. hmm. 





Hi all
I m jobless and recently my bf bursted on me as I m not working since pandemic and if I will not work his family won't let us marry as they see no positive point in me...2-4 days back he bursted on me as his relatives and family is after him to get married..well my fault..I don't blame him for everything..but our relationship suffered too and v r trying to make it beautiful and I m trying to get some job..I don't understand why Indian families/ relatives take kids marriage so personally

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