after i had a 2 year burnout working 12 straight hour a day programming, i started doing drugs to postpone time… ever time i dream doing or thinking about adult responsibilities i buy beer and some coke and do it for days, i’m about to make 30 and have no plan b… i’m still living with my parents and it sets me even more apathic to the point even friends reject me, i have a degree in computer science… i’ve been living this for 4 years now, my life fell apart after i broke up with my girlfriend, i worked pretty hard all my life, to the point i had everything i needed. I can’t stand this anymore… 🤑 i’m desperetaly for a reality shock.
Dide this is so me
can we team up to found the next 100 billion 500-fortune company hahhaa??
any tips would be appreactied…
Hey, the 12 Steps program can cure any addiction. I’d recommend you to pick any from Alcoholics Anonymous, CoDa, Cocaine Anonymous, Love Addicts Anonymous & Workaholics Anonymous.
Check them here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_twelve-step_groups
If you don’t have the time to go through it, simply download and print the worksheets (Step 4 & 10). Take pen and paper and do the following:
Do Step 4 once. Just go do it. What do you have to lose?
Do Step 10 every day without exceptions.
Now you need a pep talk !!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KxGRhd_iWuE
Sometimes it’s time to rest and recalibrate. Forget your story for a moment. Get in touch with yourself. Forget the world for a while.
Take a mental inventory and name your situation. Then enumerate carefully as many goals as possible you would like to meet in the resolution of your situation.
You’ll find that some goals are conflicting. Sometimes we do not perceive our own best interest in a situation.
We are here for you if you want to talk more.
What is the number one problem do you think you need to resolve?
It’s ok things happen .you first out the things what ur capabile of doing wrte it down and now think wre u want to be n next 5 ,yr and then now connect strings how can with ur skill set u can reach to ur goal and wht is required
For having gf/bf is not everything . learn any instruments or grow a pet u will find ☮️ .try to see ur life from others perspective u will get solutions .all the best dear
ok guys i’ll give it a shot! :)
