After coming in serious relationship i fell like i have no friends around me , i had friends in past but i left them becoz i was not there priority at all. And now my bf also has no time for me, he is always busy in work, i knw he working for our future, but still there a limit how long he has to busyβ¦ its not like that he is ignoring meβ¦ but just too busyβ¦ i feel alone at homeβ¦ he is doing the right thing for us β¦ but i donβt know why it hurts do much
Kian @kian8
Hey i understand but now you also bring best out of you and set a target for yourself in long run be confident and work on it π―
Its kind of complicated
Kian @kian8
Itβs your life yo need to work on it once you start all the complications will definitely go away
I kindof stand on the other side of the wall. Am a guy whose girl has the same issue. I do know we are missing so many things to do out together but yes, we are sad too.
Why it has to be in this way? why there is no other way β¦ like mostly satisfied
Thereβs always a way, thatβs a hard 1 to go through but once you have made your way through it then there isnβt anything which can break you. That is called Patience and Understanding.
Its been 4 year like these sometimes i just done with it i cant take it any more
You guys live in the same city?
Same town , around 5 mins away from me
Any sync in Work timings ?
He is DJ no particular work timings but his family is headache.
Think about the family later like maybe after marriage but before that, thereβs lots of stuff to be looked over. Like compatibility of you both, how can you guys work and make time for each other etc stuff
All the very best buddy, but I would say brace up yourself to face the worse. We donβt know anything but yeah, all support to you. Be strong
Even we fight , he says always everything will be fine, but its not , its a loop hole , i m circling round n round, i trust him easily , coz i have no option , but i stop excepting n hoping anything in relationship, it fell meaningless
I can understand you pal, and thatβs why I was saying all support to you. Understood its tough time but yeah, just brace up. Just hope all goes good for you.
Kind of our family knows that we are relationship, i tried to work it out with his family but it didnβt went wellβ¦ coz my childhood werenβt good with my parents
His insecurity doesnβt let me work
It will fine, try working out things with him 1st. Decide how to deal the things together, talk to each other on the way of solving stiff together. Listen and talk. Everything will get solved so be patient and walk together
Are you serious?
Yes i cheated him with another guy, n some another third told him all the stuff . β¦ he asked me he didnβt believe in tat person β¦ I didnβt lie to himβ¦ i was in guilt that i cheated on himβ¦ Still guiltyβ¦
If this is the reason for the limitation of your career then its time for you to better re-evaluate the stuff again. Sorry to say that.
I was earning too
My girl cheated me with her office colleague, she confessed that to me and she changed her company to move closer to me as much as possible way.
He was earning n i was also earning⦠i was giving the time he wanted the needs he wanted, all he wants me to understand his situation wen its my turn
If our partner cheats on us, can we forgive them and give them another chance?
But we know our past n we know how we both had fave itβ¦ We both donβt want to give up easilyβ¦ i love himβ¦ cheating was my mistakeβ¦ today also i m gulity abt it
I did to same thing
Its was my mistake that i cheated i knw i have hurt him n i m sorry for him .
She says the same thing to me, but inside sometimes I too feel to cheat her just to teach her a lesson. But havenβt been successful till now. Itβs nearly been 2 years that she cheated on me. I said I forgave her and moved on but I know am not the same person anymore. I want to cheat too but I am not able to. V love each other but things r hard
After cheating i didnβt wanted to be in his lifeβ¦ I went far from him for his goodβ¦ He was my first i was not able to forget himβ¦ he was also not ready to live without me. He gave this chance i m thankful to that . β¦ but where i feel i m no postion to make demand
He might have resentment towards you, and you are having guilt and there is no trust, so its very hard for this relationship to work when so many things are wrong, its very hard to forget the cheating, my ex husband cheated on me, he didnt tell me i found out, he said sorry and wont happen again but i never could trust him again and kind of stopped loving him too eventually because i resented himβ¦so we divorced eventually, cheating destroys a relationshipβ¦maybe move on and dont make the same mistake againβ¦find a job, what happens if he suddenly decides to break up again and you are left without anything, dont sacrifice your career for a relationship that might not even workβ¦