After a couple of years of being together my partner tells me that they are not as attracted to me as they were before and that they are not sure if they should still be involved with me romantically. They have felt this way for some time now but was just too scared to tell me because they did not want to hurt my feelings. They felt like we have ran out of things in common or things to talk about. Is it just me or there really comes a point in a relationship where things go from fun and exciting firsts to comfortable and secure committed phase? I think that when the honeymoon phase is over there comes the hard part where being with someone becomes a conscious decision and not just based entirely on feelings. Choosing to be committed, to stay in love with someone. Not running off the moment its no longer entertaining for you.
if you love someone the choice of commitment shouldn’t be so hard even if they’re scared. you deserve better, someone who doesn’t second guess you. sure, relationships are not always exciting but that shouldn’t matter if the love is genuine and real.
yeah, I think you’re right. thanks for that
