After 6 years of depression…now I am good. In past, I went into depression bcoz of social anxiety disorder. And I got OCD too which then added to my suffering. My depression is got checked now. But I still feel a bit anxious in social situations due to social anxiety and am still under medication. I want to talk to frnds, wanna hang out with them.
In reality, I can’t talk to frnds in phone bcoz of anxiety. I feel afraid meeting with frnds who are now doing good in their careers.
It’s been 7 years now…I passed out from my civil engineering graduation. I crossed age 30. I m still preparing for govt. engineer job…but it requires persistent hard work. I don’t know whether I should continue preparing that or I sud plan smthin different to get a job. I really want a job and want to earn money. My family also feel bad and want to see me in a job. Plz HELP ME 🙏🙏…
Thank you for writing this post
Can totally relate to every single word written by u…
See IT WILL BE FINE
YOU WILL SET EVERYTHING FINE…
Pls pls pls stop overthinking
The more you think
The more you will feel miserable…
Writing all this from personal experience
Not all are lucky enough to get job
N the job u are trying for is pretty challenging
It requires lot of guts to take up something so challenging…
But still i would say that while you are trying for it
Take up some job also
Some part-time job
You can teach engineering subjects
If that isnot something you will like to do…
Try to invest in stock market
Try out some avenues to earn
To keep ur mind occupied
Stay engrossed
Stay busy…
See it is the TIME FOR YOU TO FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE
TO MAKE YOUR CAREER
Instead of taking stress about your CURRENT SITUATION
Just try to alter it
Do WHAT YOUR HEART FEELS RIGHT…
N pls stop looking at YOUR AGE…
That will only cause more troubles
See not everyone achieves everything at the designated age…
Some achieve it big but late
IT IS NEVER TOO LATE
TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE…
TAKE CHARGE OF UR LIFE
Once when you are satisfied with whatever you are doing
You will feel confident
N will be able to interact nicely with your friends…
.
Pls DONOT ENTER THE TRAP OF INFERIORITY
YOU ARE AN ENGINEERING GRADUATE
IT IS NOT A SMALL THING
NOT EVERYONE CAN BE THAT
SO YES YOU ARE INTELLECTUAL
YOU HAVE SO MUCH TALENT
SO MANY STRONG POINTS
JUST TRY FIGURING IT OUT…
FOCUS ON BECOMING BETTER VERSION OF URSELF…
See we have are having our own journey
While your friends are having their own journey
They are driving their car on their road at their speed
U decide your road
It need not be same as them
N you drive at your speed…
SLOW N STEADY ALSO WINS THE RACE…
Start taking baby steps
Small small challenges for yourself
Donot put any sort of pressure
Stay calm stay composed
WISH YOU IMMENSE SUCCESS IN YOUR LIFE
YOU DESERVE A LOT N YOU WILL GET IT
JUST HAVE HUNDRED PERCENT FAITH IN SELF…
ALL THE VERY BEST
KAR HAR MAIDAN FAITAH…
Take care of urself
Eat well
Sleep well…
God bless.
Thank u so much Kusum 🙏
i can related u bro😥 is social anxiety ne zindagi bekaar kr di
