Advice required:
I’ve just come out of a 5 yr relationship but amicably so. Since the breakup I’ve been trying to keep her involved with everything but she seems to be trying to keep me out of stuff. EG if I’m seeing friends I’ll make sure she’s invited but she doesn’t do the same for me. So now I feel like I’m losing friends. Maybe I should stop trying to involve her but my friends will think that’s odd because they like her and know that we’re still on good terms. I just feel like I’m in a position where no one’s really on my side and people are taking her side over mine. Help
How do you think you would feel if she was not keeping you out of stuff?
Well maybe I wouldn’t feel so lonely
You need to do what makes you happy. Try to communicate what she is doing and how it makes you feel but if she doesn’t get it or change I’d say, do what you need
It’s difficult because we’re broken up and it’s fair for her to want some space from me, but it’s having an effect on me now where people seem to want to he her friend more than they do mine
