Actually I have this friend who keeps telling me lie about herself . Like we would be in a conversation and them she would tell a full situation about herself and a guy and I use to think it’s true but later after a while she says I’m just kidding . I ignored it few times . But then I told her I don’t like how she lies and makes stuff and tells me . She said she won’t do it again but she did it again . I let it go again . But few fews back she came to my house and the first thing I told was how upset I’m of her lies and this might affect our friendship because I don’t like people who lie and she said sorry and she said she won’t do again . Then we talked for a while and then she said about the situation with a men . I thought it was true because just few minutes ago I told her not to lie . So I trusted her this time and after few hours she called me and said what I said was not true and I lost my mind . She said she has insecurities but that doesn’t mean ahe has to lie to me about a guy . What do you think should I let it go again ? But I don’t want people in my life who keeps lieing
You should stay away from people who keeps on lying. It’s not good for your mental health
Does she lie to other people as well? If thats the case she has mental illness. If no then cut ties with her.
I don’t think so she tells lie to others . But whatever lie she has told is goes like she is in a relationship with a guy or she is sexually involved with him . I just don’t understand why she has to lie ?
If she lies only to you then she honestly want you to suffer (as to why she feels this would make you suffer is beyond my senses, like does she wanna flex her relationship and achievements in front of you). Cut her from your life.
When I told to my boyfriend that my friend has been doing this ps he knows her too . He said that she might be saying the truth but she just wants to know my opinion without getting judged maybe she is just testing how would I react without me getting to know everything . But the last time I talked whatever she said I believe it to be true as I have been her friend for past 5 years but she says that’s not true . Right now I really don’t understand what to believe and what not to believe
5 years se friends ho to trust hona chahiye tumpe, also lying isn’t justified in any sense. Have honest chat about her lying (last waala chance) and then see where it goes. This time ask her for reasons of lying, not promises to not lie.
Yesss , thank you so much for talking . It means a lot
U know, secretly she loves to see you in pain (this is a mental disorder itself) if you have the patience, then help her realize this and get over it) if it’s affecting you alot, please please walk away. It can also affect your belief in other ppl. One day someone might come to you with a true story’ which was mind blowing but u may end up thinking that this person might be lying. Trust issues will crash hard. Only continue if you have the emotional strength
Yes I feel that too . I’m a person who doesn’t like people who lie because I can’t tolerate a lie still I ignored her lies for quite some time but I feel she doesn’t trust me or something like that , that she has to lie to me