Abusive fathers belong to a special place in hell.
Abusive as in verbally or what ???
oh he never waits
Is your dad physically abusive ???
yes, he is
I am sorry to hear that but is it a way you can stop that ???
He beats you up ???
yeah, he beats mom so when i defend her, i get beaten too. Sometimes i get beaten for no reason. he just drinks alot and starts doing all this.
Is the physical abuse changing into sexual abuse ???
You should make a police complaint against him
You should either make a police complaint or try involving elders of your family to make him understand what he is doing is wrong
What are you planning to do now
Are you a guy or a girl ???
How are you gonna manage are you gonna do a job there ???
Okay all the best hope you get a better life you dream of
It’s so difficult to explain. We are too dependent on him, unfortunately. My brother and I are students, mom’s a housewife so we are financially vulnerable and that’s exactly what he takes advantage of. Another thing is that if we do move out, we aren’t in any way, safe. He is psychotic and he might even try harming us and that’s for sure. He wants us to suffer. He has been abusive ever since he met mom. It’s like I want to move out or even file a complaint against him but things just don’t add up. So many obstacles and it’s such a crucial year for me. I just started uni and I have zero motivation to even begin studying. Nothing is okay, my health is also being adversely affected. I have ideas but still, feel so clueless.
You going through a lot girl
Keep strong and keep fighting your way out I can’t even imagine what you might be going through.
i wont give up, thank you for giving me strength!
Always there to boost you up girl can ping me or even connect if you wish to
I agree! Are you ok tho?
could be better i guess. I hope you’re well though.
I’m fine, thank you for asking! What’s on your mind?
Just try to convince your mother to divorce him. He would have to pay alimony since your mother is housewife. Its domestic abuse you need to take legal action.