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A guy that I started dating told me that he wants to marry me and share future stuff. We hadn’t even met face to face. Is this a red flag or is he serious?

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Anonymous
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Meet him stay for sometime long and then decide

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Anonymous
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I think you might want to talk more to him before making any rushed decisions… try to meet him face to face too…

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Simran @st1199

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Hey,
Not a Red flag for sure. At the same time, without even meeting in person and discussing life and what you both think about life, it doesn’t sound serious to me.

Marriage is a very big step and for that, you MUST very well know your partner. Do you think you both know each other well without even meeting once?

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Kai @kaileo_

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YES , I was talking to some dude I met on tinder & bestie did the same thing. Some ppl call it love bombing , I call it lying. Just see where it goes & try your best not to get too attached cause those types of dudes say one thing then later on you two become strangers

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Hey, I don’t think it’s a red flag. Love is very subjective. What he felt for you in a day can be completely different from what you feel for him in a day of talking. His claims may be valid, but you do you girl. If you are not there yet, or you don’t want to get there yet, you are completely valid.

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Anonymous
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But he was talking to my best friend at the same time while making such claims

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@solitaire
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Okayy that’s kinda sus. I think you deserve amazing people that bring out the best in you. You are allowed to validate what you’re feeling and if you feel like he is not worth it. He isn’t. You deserve better!❀️

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Definitely a red flag. He is rushing into things and can’t think straight. One needs to understand that dating someone online and actually being with them is way different. You should ask him to meet, but you take your time. Offline dates pe jaao and see where it goes. DO NOT AGREE to his whims or take those casually. I don’t want you to panic, I want you to be aware and careful.

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