A guy friend of mine had a break up 3 years ago
She cheated on him and he’s still suffering because he loved him so much that he literally put her above his mom…
now he has sleepless nights and overthinking and nightmares…
I feel so bad for him I try to help but always end up ruining things
How do I help him?
I can’t see him suffering while his ex is happy and unbothered
It’s best to leave him to his thoughts as he will get it when he wants to get it. Just pray and be a friend.
Don’t try to make him get out of it. He will do it eventually. Most you can do is find another girl for him. Send him on a few dates.
Yea that’s a good option
And about the dates he’s not ready to even listen about another girl…he just thinks of his ex
Then you take him out. Or a trip.
Change of scenery is always helpful.
We live in totally different cities :))
Then plan a trip or Call him to your city.
I wish that was possible haha