a girl knows that I love her so she chose to be a prostitute because she knew that anyhow she will convince me to marry her and we know that in love we bypass the lover’s flaws. So, she is living now a lustful life in her young age but she is not talking to me for years because she wants me to become a successful person so that she can marry me. Her entire family, relatives, everyone close to her knows that I love her and she and her friend, society told my parents that I love her. What should I do? Should I leave her for her stupid idea? Is it my fault that if I leave her for her stupid idea after promising to marry her in the church? Even though a male prostitute knows her, she is dating someone else in front of me…I don’t have any problem but if someone else (except her) opposes the rules and regulations against me, I take action.
I consulted a psychologists and they told me to walk away from her and move ahead in life.
Ohhh bhai… Door reh koi dusri dekh. Don’t love the person who takes advantage of us and our nature…
Leave her. She wants you to become successful but what is will she bring to the marriage? Nothing. You seem like a religious person and a Christian. You can go and confess to a pastor if you feel like breaking up will be a sin from your part (Sorry I’m not Christian, I don’t know if this will work or not). She doesn’t seem like a good person and do you want your future children to grow up with such values? Will you be ever happy knowing that your future knows about your feelings and want to marry you but she is also having affairs with several other men in front of you?
(Anyone who is reading the reply - I’m not misogynist, I’m a woman myself and would have said the same thing if the genders were reversed).
First of all its a profession that she chose and that shouldn’t be the reason for anyone to not marry her.
All professions are normal.
BUT!
The fact that she has been taking you for granted is a red flag. If you choose to marry her someday, then there will be nothing good happening to you, but only she will be using you. Which is her ultimate plan for future.
Does her family and other people know about her profession?
It’s very important for you to move on because it’s going to ruin your life. You are not anyone’s back up plan. You have a life of your own. You deserve everything back that you give. Go for dates and try to move on.
