A friend of mine tells me she gives me more importance than her bf, but I found out she is actually lying. (she is in a serious relationship, she even calls me bro/bhai sometimes. And yeah, I help her a lot in studies and problems.)
Girls, what does it mean? why is she behaving so?
Maybe she might consider you bestie with whom she can share her thoughts without being judged
Not necessary she is falling for you or she finds a good support
Multiple reason can be possible
What others think?
I know she is not falling for me and finds me good support and I also feel I’m one of her besties. But why does she lie that she is giving more importance than her bf? I have caught her lying 2-3 times.
I guess that you need to ask her indirectly to figure out what’s exactly going on her mind
Maybe she might open up and somewhere you get the clue…
Also make sure you are not being used in any situation( just a thought not always happens , but you may never know)
Even I’m suspecting the same thing. Can you clue me how to ask her indirectly?
Btw thanks for replying.
Umm I guess you could start with meeting her with the other friend as a plan kind of stuff and somewhere you guys talk about the mutual stuff and give kind of benefit of doubt
And later on you might ask her alone what’s on her mind
Something like that
Not sure of
Its OK no need to thank😀