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Prachi Sharma @_wizerd_111...

25/09/22

Went for an early morning walk with a friend in my hometown and met our History teacher of our middle schoolโ€ฆ We wished her morning and had a little chat related to studies. . .then she began to say that I grew a lot and I am really very fat now. She pointed at my friend and said that I should stay fit like her and I am too fat for my age ( I know she was just too frank and I should take it in a positive way but it hurt bad).
I remember she always called me โ€˜chubby cheeksโ€™ when i was in 8th standard and I felt loved. . .
But this time being compared was the worst part. . . ( I liked her as a teacher but idk why after this incident I feel quite disappointed )

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It started good but went downhill . Just try to ignore what she said

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Prachi Sharma @_wizerd_111...

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Okayโ€ฆ I will
Thank you ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿค

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Vijay Sharma @vijay25

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Itโ€™s normal to feel disappointed now let it go and focus on other things

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Prachi Sharma @_wizerd_111...

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Okayโ€ฆ ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿค

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Anonymous
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Just cheer up Everyone has their own charm she is blind ig who couldnโ€™t see your charm ;)

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Prachi Sharma @_wizerd_111...

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Ummโ€ฆ I really donโ€™t care about charmsโ€ฆ
As a student who was once taught by her I thought highly of herโ€ฆ She is good for sureโ€ฆ But I never thought she would compare me in that way and make me feel smallโ€ฆ
Anywayโ€ฆ I am feeling better here โ€ฆ Thank you itโ€™s all because of you guysโ€ฆ ๐Ÿ™‡โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿค

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Anonymous
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Maybe she is a good teacher but not a good human who doesnโ€™t care abt other pplโ€™s feelings.

@aaditya_sonwane
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She said what she saw. Laugh it off because you are what you are. Not good, not bad. Itโ€™s coming from a 105kg guy.

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Prachi Sharma @_wizerd_111...

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Okay ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿค
_from 56kgs girl

@aaditya_sonwane
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๐Ÿ˜‚ good. That Fat is a part of you and you are awesome the way you are! Just know that!

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Prachi Sharma @_wizerd_111...

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Uh are the coolest here !!
Lots of love ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿค
Pretty humanโ€ฆ

@aaditya_sonwane
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Haha! Thanks;)

@gaps
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It wasnโ€™t right on her part but you got to understand that world is a cruel world and we canโ€™t always live a sheltered life. Develop a thick skin my friend and keep on rocking. ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฝ

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Hiโค๏ธ๐Ÿ’‹

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Anonymous
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Maybe she didnโ€™t mean the way you felt itโ€ฆ it could be purely out of the same affection that she said it or maybe out of concernโ€ฆ but hey, either way, you are beautiful the way you areโ€ฆ letโ€™s consider fatness around your heart (not in literal way) and forgive her for what she saidโ€ฆ Iโ€™m sure sheโ€™ll understand someday

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Yaar tum ko dusron ke post pe itna positive dekh ke to yahan aayaโ€ฆ Itโ€™s all gonna be okay. โ€ฆ youโ€™re smart girl, I hope you will be fine organically. Came here to show my appreciation :) Keep on shiningโ€ฆ

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Prachi Sharma @_wizerd_111...

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๐ŸฅบJust read thisโ€ฆ
Thank youโ€ฆ ๐Ÿฌ

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