2 days ago im having sleep over at my boyfriend's house. we're having fun. but then untill now he seems like show no interenst to me. idk why. or am i just overreacting? now i am the first one call and texting him. what should i do?

Relationships

So there's this bestie of mine, she introduced me to her male bestfriend. He was so vibin and it didn't took so much time and we become besties as well but later on I noticed his behaviour towards my bestie, he always took her for granted like whenever we hangout me and my female bestie he only came when I was there not when she told him to come alone. He refused to meet her everytime and whenever he made her upset i took her side and scolded him for his behaviour he always apologize to her but  sometimes he hurted me as well but my bestie didn't took my side. She always took his side like I'm at fault but I ignore that but yesterday they got in a argument I tried to sort it out but i end up messed it up and he told us don't contact me again and she left too! so I thought since I came into his life they're drifting and it breaks my heart so today I decided to leave them both for their best! I THING I'M WRONG HERE!! idk I wanna hear your opinion. 😩

3am Thoughts

what does it take to get over someone , been almost more than a year , but i still think about him .How do i get over him?

Love

Can we be good friends after our break-up ??

Breakup

I love the feeling of being in love. I think the most addicting feeling is being in love. I have only been in love once and my heart was shattered by that boy. After he broke my heart all I wanted was him back. I still love him to this day but he did a horrible thing so why do I still miss him? It's because I don't miss him. No. I miss the feeling he gave me. I felt loved. I felt alive. I felt wanted. I missed being in love and I miss giving love, it was addicting. I miss saying the words, "I love you" and fighting over who loves each other more. But there's only one thing I can do about that. Go and find more people to give my love to and wait for someone to love me in return. This world is full of people who need love and everyone deserves love. 

In my last few posts i have mentioned about the guy who i love!!
Now m in a situation where i am just unable to decide what is infront of me!!
I loved this guys one sidedly for 3 years and after 3 years he said he dnt have the feeling for love but he likes me and if his family agree's he will marry me!!
So we spoke to his family and ast first i thought they are not going to agree but they agreed!
Later they said they want dowry for which my parents have agreed whatsoever but now we reaslised that the amount that is needed is not possible to be arranged in span of 1 year!!
I spoke to the guy but he says he can't speak to his family in this matter as he has given the option to his family to decide for the girl as in his past he had made few mistakes!!
Now the option is to get the money in the time of 1 year or i should forget about the guy and the marriage.

That guy is in position where he dnt want to become a bad son and neither wants to compromise in anything!!! I feel like i am making all the efforts to get him in my life but if anything goes negative then he is even ready to get married with the girl whom their family will select.

I dnt want my family to suffer as on there pain i can't build my marriage life...and i dnt even want to miss the guy who i love so much!!

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Family

What kind of guy keeps calling and messaging in a relationship and says the goal is to make me block him! 

Marriage

I am feeling lost..why does this happen to me ..i loved him with all my heart..he was also in love with me..but when his parents went against this relationship ..he went all cold..am i not worth fighting for?

I honestly dont even know where to start… this year has hit me like a truck i left a three year relationship because i fell out of love and i feel i didnt give myself enough time to heal. Then i got into another relationship 2 months later and ive grown so attatched to him. Lately i feel like he hasnt been showing much effort but he makes me feel stupid for talking to him about it. I feel a change in vibe but its so hard to explain and i sound obsessive when i do explain it. Ive been feeling so insecure and lonely lately its not easy having no one to talk to at times 💔

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