Yo, in simple words, I wanna be a dude and i’m attracted to guys. This sounds really bad, but the issue is, i’ve always been “homophobic”, and i’ve always made fun of others. I judge people with my friends a lot. I say slurs, I make fun of peope with pronouns, and i’m not a good person. I know this sounds like i’m just fucking with everyone but can someone PLEASE give me some advice? I know for a fact i’m not going to be accepted by my friends or family, since they are against the LGBTQ+. I’m already very masculine, and act like a dude, but what do I do? I know i’m a bad person, i’ll accept any hate, but how do I change? Please, someone help me. I’m 16 and I feel like it’s way to late to become a guy when i’ve already been a girl for 16 years. I can’t accept myself for wanting to be a guy. Thanks for listening man.
Well you have been a bully in past but that doesn’t mean you can’t change that . From now on try to be considerate and try to accept person with any gender identity or orientation. Dont use any slurs , stop doing such things. Even if you know you have hurt someone then apologize make amends somehow. Try to make your friends abut why all this is wrong. Might take time and work but you gotta start somewhere.
Either you can hide for your entire life or you can come out and live a life freely with dignity. Hope everything will work out for you.
you’re right man, thanks for the advice lol. its just that my type of humor is roasting and insulting rip.
